Is she f***kn me about?

I went out with this grl for 6 months, we were in love and i still love her. We split for bout a month then got back together, but she became ill refused to see me for 4 months. She eventually had an operation and now she is just bout ok. We spoke on the phone and agreed that we'd meet up after her op. After her op she did'nt speak to me for 3 days. She eventually got in touch and said she'd been ill so couldnt text. She said she'd text me next day. She didn't get in touch for 2 days i txt her and she went crazy sayin she'd been paintin her house with her mum all day and left her phone in her room. She then never got in touch for another 2 days but then she phoned outta blue and we spoke for an hour. She said she'd top-up next day and speak. She never for 3 days. Then we had a small txt convo but she stopped txtn suddenly and hasn't got in touch since. That was yesterday afternoon. Iv txt her 4 times and called twice, she hasnt replied. Its hurtin me cos i love her, is she takin the p?

I havent seen her for 4 months still and she says she wants to meet but refuses to say when. Do u think im an idiot for waitin? Why is she doin this? Do u think she is interested still? HELP!!

It doesn't seem she has you at the forefront of her life right now. Give her some space for awhile. She just went through, it seems, a traumatic experience with her illness and operation so her love life can't be very important to her at this point. Just let her know you're there for her whenever she's interested and stop texting/calling her so much. If its meant to be it will happen. Good luck!

I hate to tell you this, but it does seem like she doesnt' know what she wants. She may still be interested, but just doesn't know what to do.

I wouldn't call her anymore. I would make her call or text me. That way if she is still interested she will persue you. If she doesn't then she isn't interested.

I'm not sure what type of operation she had or what sickness this is...but she could be apprehensive seeing you because of that. Maybe she doesn't want to let you see her weak, or the effects of this surgery.

If I were you, I would make one last effort. Either call her and leave a message, or write her an email. Tell her that you want to be there for her, but you can't do that if she won't allow it. If there are any affects from her operation that you know of that could be making her reluctant to see you, then tell her that it doesn't matter to you. Tell her how it makes you feel that she is ignoring you when you care for her so much. If you don't get a response back to that and if she doesn't change her attitude, then you've got your answer and shouldn't wait around on her anymore.