Have you fancied a friends girlfriend or boyfriend or vice versa?

But you know you cant ever be with them and you dont want to risk your friendship or relationship?
Its happend to me allot in the past but its not me that is doing the fancying,if you know what i mean.
For example if i meet a friends girlfriend for the first time i always get the impression that they prefer me over my mate and it causes problems because my mates get all paranoid and wont leave us in the room together sort of thing.
I fell out with a old mate over this sort of thing a few years ago,he was convinced me and his girlfriend where doing somthing behind his back but i had no interest in her i would never betray my mates like that but it turns out she did fancy me and they splitt up and i fell out with my old mate over it.
Its not my fault im a nice guy i wont change for nobody but me being so nice causes problems in friends relationships and there girlfriends end up fancying me and ive fell out with 2 friends in the past because of it.What can i do to prevent this?

happening again?

My 2 best mates are married so theres no worries there they have found there true loves.

Even if i have a girlfriend of my own it still seems to cause problems with other friends.

I think at the end of the day they need to change there pesonality and be nice guys and they wouldnt fancy me in the first place

You must be good looking with a good personality and just generally a nice guy. It's hard to come by.

That's why these girls like you.

Don't change, just try to get your mates to take a leaf out of your book.

yes but i would not do anything even if we had a connection

yes and this is a horrible situation to be in.....just decide what means the most to you, is what you want worth hurting someone...it wasnt for me. Its so hard to find loyal honest friends and so easy to find a lover....goodluck

i don't fancy you