Help me understand??? Ok, so I am trying to be open minded, and not be a pain in the a** husband....?

My wife and I have a very healthy sex life.... probably on average about 5 times a week. I dress up for her, watch porn together, I work hard to keep myself in shape. Anyway, she just gave birth to our second child, and I make sure her needs are still being met even although I'm up all night (she sleeps straight through). I've just found out that she is looking at porn when I fall asleep on the couch (computer is in the same room), Now I wouldnt care but its become a huge amount.... basically everytime I turn my back shes on, but at the same time lying to me. We alaways saud we'd be open and honest about this stuff, but I cant help feeling a little insecure. I asked her if she compares me to them, and she says yes, but that they are all 18 and i cant expect to look like that anymore!!!!!!!! I feel quite hurt, and to be honest find it a huge turn off! Any advice?????

mabye i can come over and watch porn with both of u and then we can have a 3 some!

She isn't looking at it sexually...She is basically taking mental notes because if she just had two kids...she is probably feel very self conscious of her body, trying to see again what they look like, getting her mind mentally ready to get her body back into super shape, learning new tricks because she may feel horrible about her body after giving birth and probably just missing the sex side. Even if she looks still hot, herself mentally..probably doesn't.

disconnect the computer...

Anyone would be hurt...you need to talk with your partner and speak your feelings without the lies