Walked in on my wife cheating on me!?

I took wife to Jamaica cause of the break I got off work. Anyway our trip was going well everything was going great so I was so happy I decided to get my wife a ring. I told my wife I needed to go to the closest city with a meeting room because my boss just came to jamaica too so I would bo out the whole day for about 9 hours. I drvoe for 3 hours to get her a ring and another 3 hours back just to walk in and see some black guy having sex with my wife in our hotel bed! What should I do she was like a deer caught in the head lights and she was very sorry. I am extremely upset and hurt she would do this to me what should I do?

LEAVE her.

LEAVE!!! My husband cheated on me and it NEVER stops. Of course, she's sorry because she got caught.

I took him back and he did it again.

It's up to you but if you do forgive her I would let her think about it for a LOOOOONG time before I allowed her back and only if she changes which most people don't.

Be strong

you should leave her.
she probably didnt do it on "accident" [[like she probably would say]] or "it just happened"

you should just leave.

give her the boot...damage done regretfully

I'd have to agree with the previous poster on this one. People for the most part don't change and I would immediately kick her to the curb.

I have had my share of bad relationships ect just as most people have....at a point I had to think about myself and my future. Yes this and this going this way would make the rest of my life fine but when I'm 80 and it didn't go the way I wished then what.....look back and say what the hell was I thinking? You have to be careful with the life decisions you make which of course seems obvious but when it comes to love one tends to get tunnel vision and not see obvious things.

I would suggest if you are intent on trying to work this out that I would myself be questioning why ect ect....maybe a councelor of some sort and I wouldn't talk about this for a bit then decide ok its all good and leave the subject alone. I'd have to say if I was going to forgive and trust then I would have to put her through an emotional hell so to speak talking about it as much as possible. If she is willing to deal with the emotional drama of the situation then there may be hope otherwise I'd forget about her.

Good Luck ;)

Man, she does not deserve you...i would divorce her because there is no way in hell that that was her first time cheating on you, um hello? Guy was a stranger, what is she doing at home when you aren't there? I think a quickie divorce and a visit to my house is best!!

1st guilt trip her with the ring and the long drive then i think u should dump her i mean ur way better than her

Get to the nearest divorce court.

Leave that cheap screw ball thing that has no morals and values in her.

Shame on her for behaving worse than a hooker

cut the b**ch's head off!

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