Walked in on wife cheating on me!?

I took wife to Jamaica cause of the break I got off work. Anyway our trip was going well everything was going great so I was so happy I decided to get my wife a ring. I told my wife I needed to go to the closest city with a meeting room because my boss just came to jamaica too so I would bo out the whole day for about 9 hours. I drvoe for 3 hours to get her a ring and another 3 hours back just to walk in and see some black guy having sex with my wife in our hotel bed! What should I do she was like a deer caught in the head lights and she was very sorry. I am extremely upset and hurt she would do this to me what should I do?

Leave the cheating cow! This was not the first time, and will not be the last. Once a cheater, ALWAYS a cheater............

Leave immediately!!!

Leave her, you deserve someone better.

I would divorce her in a heartbeat. you deserve much better.

get rid of her she did it once she will do it again,

Get out the video camera and video her doing this other guy. They join in and have a three some.

Doesn't sound like it was a chance meeting.

Take the ring back and leave her behind

If you stay I would turn her out make her into a whore and you get the money.

well she obviously doesn't have the same feelings for you that you have for her... sooo i would consider the thing everyone dreads but divorce or talk/argue things over.

hope that helps ?

get her pregnant, divorce her and take half her money...

Talk to her! Most likely this isn't her first time cheating on you. Hopefully you can make it work, but that's pretty hard to forgive something like that. It all depends on how much you want to make it work out. It's your decision.

are you serious? is that a serious question? She F's some guy that she doesnt even know and your confused about what to do? Whatever. Forgive her. Im sure she'll never do it againg bcz she said she's really sorry.

John, that is so sad and so very very wrong of her, I'm sure you will have trust issues in the future, as well you should.
What you do is your decision, if you love her, maybe you can work it out, it's up to you but personally I feel once a person cheats, they will again.
You deserve better John !!!!!!!!

I would be devastated and I would divorce her ASAP.

I can tell ya what i'd do. pack my stuff, get all the $ out of the bank, take a plane home, change the locks, pack all her crap in a garbage bag, set it out by the curb, go file for divorce. She cheated, what else is there to do?go back for sloppy seconds? i dont think so!!

I think that you deserve better. Would you cheat on her, i think not because you are so upset about this cheating she has done. There is somebody out there for you who will be faithful to you for an eternity. Personally i can truely see that you want to forgive her and be with her because you may think that the love you had is still there. But once a cheater always a cheater.

She may have been drinking and a set of circumstances came around that put her out of character for a moment. If you love her and she said she was truly sorry and something like this would never occur again, the choice is easy. You forgive her. Put it out of your mind like it never happened, and go on with your life.

Do you expect anyone to believe this story? First, nobody leaves their wife for nine hours while on vacation in Jamaica. The point of going there is to be together. Secondly, married men take their wives to a jewelry store to select a ring. Single men might risk picking out a ring she won't like and that won't fit, because they have a mistaken idea that a surprise will make a woman happy, but husbands know better..

i would leave. i think its messed up for u to take her out and she still cheats.

My gf had her first Black experience when we were in Cuba. We got friendly with the DJ. He took us dancing at a club & gf got VERY drunk. She took turns dancing with us but when HE was with her, his hands explored ALL over her body. After a few hours, she told me, "he wants to make love to me." So I asked her: "Do you want to have sex with him?" After giving me a hug she replied, "yes". She got back to our hotel room at 2am crying and saying that he had been so rough with her that she was bleeding. (She went to the shower right away so I never found out if he had done her vag or anal or both.)

The important thing is that after we got back to Canada she started to get interested in having black lovers.

Bet that YOUR wife is going to do the same thing.
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