Does he really loves her ?

my best friend asked me if this guy loves her. She met him online in a chat room , then he added her to his list and started to chat with her. She didn't take it seriously,but then he told her that he loved her.He kept asking her if she loved him,she said no,but he kept chatting with her and telling her all love words.After few days,she felt she started to love him,and she told him that.Well,he lives in India and she lives in U.S.She started to call him each day.One day,she didn't call,but when she did next day,he cried,he really cried.Another day,she didn't call either,she felt that he was really sad.They talk for more than an hour each day.She saw him on webcam, and he saw her photo,he tells her
that he can't live without her and that he loves her so much, more than his family.He always ask her about anything he's willing to do, and he said he'll come to U.S to marry her.The question: is she really in love with him?Does he really loves her?how would she know?please answer seriously

your friend sounds like she is REALLY looking for love, so much that she is trying to find it with someone across the world! in the USA, we toss around the word love frequently, which is not always a bad thing. ( i would rather hear of love than hate any day!) when you are talking about marriage love, this is an entirely different thing. marriage is a life-long commitment to one another. love is only one aspect of marriage. you must be compatible (meaning you get along well enough to spend the next 50 years together.) personally, i don't think you can get that kind of love speaking a few times & seeing each other on the web cam. you all sound like you are younger, & your heart wants to find someone special. the indian guy may be special, but not enough to travel around the world to find out. i'm sorry if that is not the answer you would like to hear, but it is a very realistic one. your friend will meet (not just chat with) many more guys in her lifetime so tell her to keep it local & that way she can make her best choice for a mate!
good luck!

No, he doesnt.

Hes looking for a green card.

they can only know this because being in love is the feeling you get no one can tell you if you love someone...It could be lust or it could be love...I think the only way they will really know is if they meet and take it from there.

no I didnt read it all but please dont mix the internet n love

Sounds like she does !!!

WOw. um, im not feeling LOVE here...more OBSESSION. India and the US?! break it to your friend gently, but it just won't work! i think she's feeling more PITY than love, and maybe she just doesn't want to recognize the fact.

no.. i think there is something wrong with him.. i think he's using her to come to america .and how can he love her if he's never met her.

He's from India? I can smell an attempt to get a US green card in the wind. He is trying to blind your friend into helping him to become a US citizen. This guy sounds about of a 'too good to be true' they warn you about on online dating sites - anyone who says they love you very quickly, when they haven't met you, and want to marry very quickly. Tell your friend to cut all contact with him.

No way! He must be looking for an easy ticket into America... Besides you cant really love someone that you haven't ever met or talked to face to face. That isn't good trying to meet people on the Internet. I would suggest to her that that is strange but dont try to go and make her 'break up' with him because she could feel that you are intruding on her life where you shouldn't be.

no, he doesn't love her..

I think you shouldn't do internet dating, you don't know who the people you date really are like, i don't think he loves her, i think he's using her for some reason. he's probably messing with her feelings. He might Just Want to mate, So i recommend she should break up with him.