How do i get my wife in the mood?

what are some good ideas i can use to help get my wife in the mood.

I like lots and lots of noocky ( what guy doesn't ) i've stopped being selfish about asking my wife for some nooky time, but i still have strong erges. I'm a nice guy. i try to meet my wifes needs. i just wish she could be more noocky active when it comes to meeting my needs.
Any ideas on how to get her in the bed.

should i try being assertive romantic ( scoop her into my arms and carry her to the room )

passive romantic ( light some candles with dinner and hope she gets the message)

write her sentual love notes.

whats your thought?

When you find out could you let us know. I still havent cracked the code.

Start early in the morning. Foreplay is an all day thing. The little things add up. Good luck. I like a lot of nooky myself.

all of the above...but maybe she is just tired. do you have kids? does she have a full time job? just do what you did the first time you had sex...that should set the mood

assertive romantic! I wish my man would do that to me just lay me down and kiss me so I can feel him getting excited. But hey i'm probably the exact opposite of your wife.

She's your wife, she has to give you sex by law. Just sneak up on her, tie her up and have your way with her, and never apologize. Also, stop saying "nookie." Yech.

Clean the house, do laundry, etc. They love that crap. Then there's no excuse not too. Buy her little things to show her you're thinking of her. Oh yeah, alcohol works well too.

The love making starts outside of the bedroom. Help her around the house so she isn't so exhausted at the end of the day. Give her lots of affection throughout the day and tell her how beautiful she is. Make her feel special each and every day. When she does get into the mood make sure she is pleased to the fullest before you are. The more happier you make her while love making the more she will want.

watch porn.it should get her turned on

Compliment her often. If you make her feel attractive and sexy, she will get in the mood more often. It is something that you have to do on a regular basis and her sex drive should gradually improve.

All the things you mentioned are good suggestions BUT ask your wife which of all those she prefers. It sounds like you're willing to meet her needs fairly. Have you talked to her about the fact that you want more sex? You might also remind her that sex is a normal part of marriage and when a guy gets married, he expects to be monogamous, not semi-celibate.

When you get the answer to solve every mans problem let me know......I have been trying for a long time to get my wife in the mood and i am still waiting.....Here are some of the ideas i tried:

Cook her Dinner
Foot massages plus pedicures
Do ALL of the housework
Prepared her a hot bath
Flowers
Romantic cards
I have offered her a complete night off no kid duty
Sexy text messages
Always tell her I love her and how sexy she is

Still no nookie time

Sorry, but the assertive and passive romantic ideas are both turn offs in my opinion. The only thing I want to do in bed is sleep, maybe your wife is the same way. There is more to life than sex, you know.

Look, for all men out there, here is the answer, listen up! Whatever you did to get get your wife is what you must do to continue to get the sex frequently. The same is true for women as well....if you played your best romantic game and stuff to get her to bed while you dated then stopped because you are comfortable in the marriage .....then how can you be shocked that the sex stopped? If you try hard to impress someone when your persuing them, then stop ....you stop being so impressive. Same as if a woman took care of herself before marriage then let her self go after...no man wants that or is turned on by that so it goes both ways. If you want more sex you need to produce the desire in your spouse that they had for you to begin with.

Most of the time, women are just plain TIRED!

Try taking care of all of her daily responsibilities one day. Vacuum the floor, clean the kitchen and bathroom, do the laundry, play with your children then bathe them and put them to bed in the evening (or if they are older, maybe you can arrange to have them sleep over at a friend's house). While you are being Mr. Mom, arrange to have your wife spend the day at a spa where she can get a facial, a massage, a pedicure, etc. When she gets home, have a romantic dinner waiting or take her out to a quiet, intimate restaurant. Be sure to order a bottle of wine. She will just have to be impressed with your thoughtfulness. In the evening, with the kids out of the house, well, who knows what magic awaits you??? But, be prepared for cuddling. The spa, the intimate restaurant, the wine, well, it might just relax her for the rest of the evening, but that does not mean that you will not have set a tone that can have rewards soon after. BE PATIENT.

The suggestions are all nice, but you have to tease her with a passionate kiss before you take off for work, and give her that look that one that makes her want you, you must know the one, then go about your day, and she will think of that kiss all day long, until you meet up later on. A slow seduction that plays out all day long, remember women like to be seduced.

It doesn't matter. You can do all those things these people ahve said and she still won't. From experience, I have cleaned the house, done the laundry, cooked dinner, put son to bed. All she did was eat dinner and goto bed.

I am sure your wife isn't this extreme but all things have to line up to improve your chances. So it is worth doing those things to make her feel better but if she had a bad day at work or something just forget abotu it!!!!

Touch her and don't hurry things. Take your time.Women hate to be pressured into sex by their husbands. Don't bug her about it everyday either. You will remind us of the kids that keep begging for something, it just gets on our nerves after a while. I love it when my husband rubs my feet unexpectedly or sweetly kisses my neck. AND for some reason I like it when he winks at me in public places I'm really not sure why either. Last part may not apply to your wife.