Can cheating wifes do it with no connections? at least 5 men?

I have found out my wife has been cheating on me but different to meeting people. Basically in a 1 year period my wife has been doing contract training work ( travels around)and in that time she has been on a hardcore adult sex meeting site. with nude photos of herself had sex with at least 5 men .
I had no idea we had a good sex life and i did think we were happy. Their were no signs at all this sex was going on.
She says she loved me then. A few years back a lot of money she took out over time out of our bank account which I put in.
We have been married for 9 years with kids.
She has told me nothing and swore on the kids graves nothing happened. I found out by digging. originally I seen a open text message on her mobile accidentially. Does this seem normal or could she have a mental problem. We went on 3 holidays in that period and nothing seemed wrong. She does not seem to display regret and recons she still loved me then. I have now moved into another room.

Your story sounds fishy. On the one hand you say you found nude photos of your wife on a website, but on the other hand your wife swears nothing happened. If you can show her the photos, how can she swear nothing happened? Furthermore, if you know for a fact that she's "had sex with at least 5 men," how could you ask if it seems normal? That kind of behavior is not even in normal's neighborhood. I think that either a) this entire question is fictional, or b) you have paranoid personality disorder.

get you self checked and dump her sorry unfaithful ***

She doesnt deserve you get rid of her, it good riddance to bad rubbish.

No, this doesn't seem normal and doesn't seem healthy in 2008. Not only is she cheating but she's lying about it. That would have me packing my bags and heading to the clinic to get checked out. Good luck.

NO, this is NOT normal!! If your wife shows no remorse and isn't willing to be completely honest about what she has done and go to marriage counseling with you, then you should do more than move to another bedroom; you should take your kids and leave. And you should definitely have yourself checked for STD's. I am sorry you have experienced this with your wife and I don't understand women who sleep around. The saddest part in your situation is that there were no signs. She did an incredible job of deceiving you.

well thats not normal and not healthy.sounds like shes a nympho i suggest you get yourself checked for std's and then go hire yourself a good divorce lawyer because i doubt anything will change.cheating like that normally dosent besides that she lied to you is putting your life and well being in jepordy and if that wasnt enough swore on your childrens lives that she wasnt when she actually was that is a very selfish woman there

That is probably a lot of men's worst nightmare... my heart goes out to you.

Her behavior sounds sociopathic... she is able to live a dual life without one life encroaching on the other.

She deserves to rot in isolation from her marraige and children for her lies, her infidelity, and her reckless disregard for your health and emotional well-being ... but, those are only my feelings... what matters is how you feel and what you want to do with her.

If it were me, I would leave her without a trace.

It seems to me she has a problem and if you don't take charge and change this situation, you too will have major problems. Before they happen, you should tell her if she continues this that it will be the end of your marriage, because her destructive lifestyle isn't going to destroy you or your kids lives. Put an end to it, no matter what the cost.

WELL ALEX IF SHE LOVE YOU HOW CAN ANY MAN BE IN SIDE OF HER>>> SHE GOT TO GO SORRY

dude! what the heck are you still doing there???? Get the heck out! Don't be a freakin fool my friend. She's loco! You deserve a normal life. When spouses cheat, you are free to divorce. Get it???? You're FREE! GET THE HECK ON WITH YOUR LIFE. GET IT?? DON'T WAIT TO GET SLAPPED LIKE A ****** TO WAKE THE HECK UP!

yes, women can cheat and have no emotional attachment to the other guys if that is what you are asking. leave her. and not just to the other room. your marriage is over.

A: time you had a bank account of your own. She cant take what she doesnt have access to. Having yourself tested for STD's would be a good Idea. Swearing on your childrens graves dont mean crap. Since you've moved into another bedroom , trust is seriously in question as far as your relationship w/ her is concerned.
People have been known to stay together for the sake of the children... which is good, as long as you 2 are not fighting over her adultery.... I'd take it one day at a time.

In answer to your initial question: Yes, I think it is VERY possible for a woman to have multiple partners and not have any "connections" with them. It sounds like your wife is a sex addict (or nympho) and has found an outlet with it. I do not think it's right, by any means, that she did not discuss this with you or have an agreement with you about what she would or wouldn't do, but I do think that this behavior is "normal" for a very small population of people. Sex is just sex and can be attained on a whole new level for some people (most of us can't even imagine). Whether or not she loves you has nothing to do with how many partners she may have had or how many times she's had sex in a day. It sounds like it is something much deeper (an addiction) that is not based off of love, it's based off of need. I would strongly urge you to be tested for STDs (if you haven't already) just to be safe.

Okay, since you've moved into another room in the house have you explained to her that you found out all this information and had her admit it to you?