After meeting him and having one date..?

He e-mailed me and told me his intentions and flaws... his intentions are to get to know me better and start a relationship (if things work out - is what I think he was getting at but I'm not 100% sure) ... and his flaw is that he says he has low self-esteem sometimes because he is chubby. What do I say to him now? He has proposed that we go hang out somewhere and have a good time... he keeps flipping on saying a date or hang out/ get together (even with our first date). If I like this guy, is he worth my time? He is funny and handsome. But the way he displayed himself in that e-mail, (even though he said it was too much information in the same e-mail) -- is it too much and should I bother dating him now that I know his flaws and intentions? How should I expect on the next date? Like I says he is funny and handsome, but he is so straight forward and kind that maybe I shouldn't bother with him? I mean, when is it normal for a guy to make a move on you, what date #?

he says his self-esteem isn't that low, he just wants to put his best foot forward (and not have it be a chubby one)

eh. Give him 1 more date before you deicde.

OK, this is going to take more work than the usual b/c of his low self-esteem. Don't expect normal routine or reaction from him. He's going to need a lot more help than you think is normal. If you can put up with that, then you might succeed in bringing him out of his shell. If you don't want to bother, then you can dump him. Remember, it's going to take a lot more work than usual if this is the person you want.

Good luck.

Well, it seems to me that he is just really open, and doesn't want to get involved with someone who isn't going to be able to accept him for who he is, and maybe that he doesn't want you to get into something that you don't want to get involved with.
If you like him, and respect him, then by all means, date him.
In my opinion, he sounds amazing, and any girl would be luck to date him.
Go for it. Totally worth it.

Well I'm 13 3/4 so I can't really help you out about the making a move thing. If you like this guy, make sure to like him flaws and all. I like people that are straight forward, makes you not have to guess their intentions or ulterior motives. The only thing about straight forward people is that sometimes they catch me off guard and there are somethings that you shouldn't tell ANYONE. If he has low self-esteem, make sure that you compliment him a lot and keep his spirits high.

Don't bother. Listing your faults is something Dr Phil would tell you to do and be yourself. Reality Check! He is saying low self-esteem (negative), chubby (negative), hang out (begging). Where's the mystery that makes you want to pursue this man? He's an open book. You'll get bored with him fast.

By date number 3 he should try for a goodnight kiss on the lips. (Even a quick one). If she turns her cheek, she's not that interested in any future romance. No touching. Women only know when it's the right time to touch.

he is trying to be upfront with you because he wants to know you better --- so what if he has told you all these things --- do they change who he is??? --- go on a date again and see how it works out --- and it can be the first date to wedding night to "make a move" --- dont get all caught up in what should i should'nt i do --- do what feels right when you are with him and dont worry in the meantime --- be excellent to each other

Just get to know him better.You don't loose anything.He is straight forward-that means he has nothing to hide,which is a good thing.There i no such thing to be normal # to make a move on you.It all depends on a guy.Some do right away,some in the middle and some later.Some guys like to take it easy for a wile.Again not a bad thing.

You found a guy that will open him self to you, never lie to you, and hopes that you can accept him for his low self-esteem. take him up on that date. most guys wait along time before they are open with girls. it means alot for us guys to open up that quick. either he really likes you or he is weird. stick with him unless he becomes toooo open, like medical history etc.

well i say if you fill like maybe you like this guy an you are not a 100% sure, why not go out with him one more time, the point is you already have so many flaws in mine i ask you is it worth it your time is your time so don't waste it.

Go out with him! this guy opened up to you, now that is something you will not find often. most guys don't do that. At least he is honest

go ahead n date him.as hes a gud guy n striaght forward n he has no bad intentions.u r lucky 2 get a gud guy.i m sure u'll b happy wit him.

go out with him because that kinda sounds like my situation except i dont gush my emotions on emails but give him a shot everyone deserves a chance :D

I guess i am baffled that you are not sure you want to date him because he is straight forward and kind?? Most women would jump and the idea of a man like that.
Give him a shot. Get to know him. Its good you know what he is thinking and you know he doesn't have bad intentions. He sounds like a good guy. You should be happy he is so interested. Try it out if you don't like him then you don't have to keep seeing him.
With your last question about making a move are you scared he won't ever make a move? Every guy is different and he might just want to make sure you want to be made a move on! Or maybe he is waiting for you to do it. I think you should get to know him more then you will understand him and feel more comfortable.

Just if he says that hes chubby all the time, well most of the time, just tell him that oh your fine. just the way i like you. or something like that.

i dont think that his flaws and intentions matter, like if he is straight foward, that means he trusts you on that you wont ever let him go, and hes sure of having a relationship with you. on your next date you should expect normal, like on your first date. act normal. its normal for a guy to make a move on you probably on your 3rd date. but if you get lucky on your 2nd. hope this works.