Why are men so confusing?

ok...
well me and this guy have been messaging each other and at first he was really nice, said he'd like to see me and get to know me more.
then he got a bit physical when i asked the question 'so what do you want to do with me?' meaning for our first date if you like... and well i'll leave it to your imaginations what he said back... if you cath my drift...
i then e-mailed back saying... well what do i say to that... not meaning anything by it... i was just a bit shocked at how forward he'd been eventhough we don't know each other.

does he like me or not?

I would say he is physically attracted to you and likes you.

Now this is only important if you want to act on this. If you don't and it should be your perogative, then you could keep the relationship in the frienship bracket.

Once you have been intimate with him there is an expectation from him that you will eventually sleep with him. You need to decide what happens next.

There is nothing wrong with a man stating his case in plain simple terms. It's what men do. They are far more honest than women are about physical atraction.

If you are interested go slowly. If you are not then don't give him any further "come hither" signs.

he thinks hes gona get his leg over.

Sounds like he wants you for sex... if thats ok with you then go for it. I think you should of explained that he had taken it the wrong way and see if he appologised to you.

He is probably just testing the boundaries and he could have meant it in a joking manner. If you are uncomfortable with the way he spoke to you, tell him about it. If he really likes you then he will apologise and will be caring towards your feelings, however if he does not then he probably only wants you for one thing.