Is this lady a ****** or WHAT?? I'm looking forward to treating women very nicely, but isn't this too much?

I just got divorced after I discovered that my wife had been cheating behind my back, and screwing around with not one, but 2 guys!
I still love being a night in shining armour but I don't want to get used! I just got a letter from this lady who comes from Minsk Belarus (Former Soviet Union: I.E. "Mail-order-bride" stuff).

SHOULD I EVEN ANSWER HER LETTER ??
What would you reply back to her if you were me ?

This is how she describes herself:
Age 31, 5' 7'' tall, Divorced, has one boy - 2003, Technical college, occupation: clothing designer (ie; unemployed).

She says she's a scorpion and she loves the extreme.
She says her main hobby is taking care of herself, and that she is going crazy about beautiful cars.
She is looking for a 'real man' who will make her feel like a Queen and will never let her forget about it even for a moment!
She wants him to care for her not because he has to but because he wants to. He must be 'extremely well-off."

She also says the following points:

"I am ecstatic from unexpected surprises. He should love children, should love my son and want a daughter too.

Mean, stingy and cheap men don鈥檛 interest me.

I like presents and flowers.

I want him to be very well-off with his own very large house (this is my dream).

He shouldn鈥檛 be a bore but fun to be with.
I really do not like to be with boring men!

I want him to be attractive with beautiful eyes!

Hey, she's got one thing going for her...she knows what she wants, and she is making it clear. It looks like you don't qualify, because she doesn't want a knight in shining armor, she wants a king with jewels, and servants to cater to her.

Unfortunately for her, it doesn't leave her with a lot of choices...o.k., probably none! If she was so hot, she wouldn't be a mail order bride.

Of course you shouldn't answer it. She's looking for a meal ticket, not a companion or spouse.

SKip the mail order thing and try eharmony or something.

Don't say anything, she sounds like a gold digger and who wants that. I know I want to be financially secure and all but I want to help as well. If she is that specific with what she wants then I'm sure she will nag alot about everything.

Well you should not reply to that letter.

Obviously this woman is looking for big bucks, not a loving husband/partner. Unless you do not mind being taken advantage of, forget her.

Do not waste any time answering her letter.

You do not want to get involved with this. Take time to get over your situation, then you will be more open to find a woman who won't use you. Don't jump that far into the unknown.

Good Luck! Us nice girls are out there, you just have to weed through the bad ones.

Wow!! There are soooo many red flags here.

Let me translate some of this into REAL English:

Unemployed: And will stay that way.

Main hobby is taking care of herself: She has no interest in doing anything except going to the hair and nail salon, getting massages and facial treatments, and buying clothes and shoes. With your money.

Crazy about beautiful cars: You'd better have one.

'Real man': Who is rich.

Will make her feel like a Queen: Will spend a lot of money on her.

Never let her forget about it for a moment: Will spend money nearly constantly. An AmEx gold card in her name would do nicely.

'Extremely well-off': If you're not the Sultan of Brunei you may have struggles keeping up with her spending habits.

Ecstatic from unexpected surprises: And they should be free-flowing and come in Tiffany boxes.

Mean, stingy and cheap men don鈥檛 interest me: Be prepared to spend a lot of money. Oh, and be nice about it.

I like presents and flowers: We've been over this.

Very well-off: Did I mention you have to be a gazillionaire?

Very large house: Any old palace would do, actually.

Note how her other requirements such as "not boring" and "attractive" are down at the bottom? They are far less important than:

1. Rich
2. Very generous
3. Extremely rich and unbelievably generous.

Don't reply. She'll find a sucker someday.

I wouldn't go as far to calling her a ***** and I definetly would not reply. I think she's obviously out for the money. And why would you ever consider a mail order bride? You honestly don't know them that whole thing is scarey! Just date around in your community, or around your city. Just be very picky about the women you might go out with. And take your time to get to know them don't rush take your time.