Married woman giving me the eye...W-T-F?

FIRST, I'm not looking to date her. I think it's immoral to break up marraiges like that, plus I don't want to get caught, if you will.

I'll admit, though, this girl is drop dead gorgeous, great figure and face. I had a seminar class with her this semester and have sat across the conference room table from her all this time. I betcha I've counted 10-12 times this semester where I've caught her giving me direct eye contact or otherwise looking immediately in my direction. She has always been real friendly (not really flirty, however) when we've talked.

Even the other day, I did horrendous on a presentation; people were laughing at me during the pres. I wasn't even whining or looking for sympathy and she still told me I did fine.

I have dark curly hair, blue eyes, a nice smile, and the "shadow" makings of a beard, if you will. Wear plain clothes but have clean appearance.

I wonder what about me she sees and why she'd be looking at me. W-T-F?

Why is she looking at you? She likes dark hair and blue eyes. You're better scenery than the little toad of a professor. She doesn't know anybody in the class and is looking for a study group -- she thinks you've got one. Don't read anything more into it than there is on the surface. If she's interested in something more, let HER make the play. Then ask her what kind of guy she thinks you are and walk away all virtuous.

i think shes just kinky thats all, i know what you mean

you get no girls punk!

Perhaps she is in a bad marriage and she sees you as an accessible male.

Ask her to join you for some ice cream.

Stick to your beliefs. Besides, it IS possible for guys 'n girls to be JUST FRIENDS! Just cuz she's nice to you and chats with you does not necessarily mean she wants you.

she is just a confident woman who may find you attractive but probably only comfortable with you. i think you are reading way too much into this and over analyzing it. enjoy it and take advantage of having of new friend who can help your ego.

people act in many unexplainable ways....

Just because she's married doesn't mean she can't window shop! It just means she can enter the store and buy!
You said she isn't flirty, so maybe you have it right, she's just friendly. Direct eye contact is a good way to show self confidence and an interest in the person speaking.
As for telling you that you did fine -- sounds like she's not just friendly, she's an upbeat person who wants others to feel good about themselves.
I say enjoy her friendship and don't worry about the rest. If you really what to know what she sees when she looks at you -- ask her. If she's as direct as she sounds, she might just tell you.

She just wants a little variety in her life, and she is considering you as a prospect. This has nothing to do with being married and a lot to do with being bored. Do what you want, you are probably not the only guy she is smiling at.

Just remember the bartender's motto: "You can't be first, but you can be next"

Peace

If you're not trying to date her, why are you analyzing this so much? I think you are attracted to her and sorta hope she has the hots for you, even if you don't really plan on doing anything about it. It doesn't sound like she's likely to make any attempt to date you, so whether or not she finds you attractive is a moot point.

For what it's worth, I'm a married woman and a student and if I sit across the conference room table from anyone all semester, you can bet I am going to look at them at least ten or 12 times and have multiple friendly, but not flirty, conversations. I look at people, I talk to them, and yeah, I try to think of something nice to say when they're having a rough day and sometimes end up saying something kinda lame.

Married women sooner or later realize marriage is a prison. Just do it, it is what I do.