Problem With Children?

I am a 35 year old married man, and a father of 2 teenagers. Well, let's just say I'm in a bit of a dilemma. Recently I've realized that both of my children are being bf and gf to each other. My 15 year old daughter has been acting very clingy towards her brother, and my 17 year old son has been fiercely protective of his sister. They've even insisted on sleeping in the same room, in the same bed and in addition I suspect my son has gotten his own sister pregnant because she's been feeling sick in the morning and having odd cravings. Earlier today my son had gotten into a fight at school over some guys who were apparently checking out his sister. I had to excuse myself from an important meeting at work to have a parent teacher conference about his fight. Right now they're in their room with their door closed doing God knows what.

I am completely at a ,loss what to be doing now.

This has got to be a joke.

If not, I am soooo sorry and you need to talk to your kids to figure out what's going on. If there is a sinful relationship there, try talking with a priest or religious figure in your life for more advice...

I hope this is a joke.

you should probally take them both tp conselling

I don't know if this is an actual issue or not because if it is you seriously need to find a psychotherapist who can help all of you deal with this very difficult and potentially dangerous situation. This is not the kind of thing you ask advice about from strangers on the internet and hope that someone has a good idea. Your children and your family are dealing with a major health concern and you all need help from a professional. Please seek it out immediately.

Why are you not talking to your wife about this?? Or confronting your kids about it??

To me this sounds like a made up question. But if it is not then you need to get them into some counseling ASAP.

Why were they allowed to be in the same room in the first place if you noticed that there were some changes happening among the two?

You just have to sit with them and talk to them. There's nothing else you can do but get it out in the open and talk calmly about the situation.

Oh and why are they allowed to be in the same room with the door closed if it makes you feel uncomfortable? You are the parent here, it's your house and your rules. Enforce them.

You should go out and get a job and a life and a hobby and stop bothering the people here! LOSER

Call your nearest therapist. PRONTO!

I know it is a disappointment to you, some people are just that way. My cousin who is an adult had chosen to be with another cousin and they have 2 kids together. Maybe individually you should talk to them about there feelings on the matter, there young and won't stay together forever. And maybe you all can agree on counseling to resolve them dating. You can't change what people want to do even if you try to keep them separated. If it were my kids I would Rather have a good relationship and open communication then completely try to shut them out. As far as her being pregnant ask her have her take a test if you can get to a point of communication the situation will be better for everyone.

I remember seeing this happen in a brook side storyline I think and so I sympathize,I think you have to tread carefully you might be putting two and two together and making five,are you sure your son is not being protective because she's pregnant by someone he knows and that's why he got in the fight? As for sharing a room o.k it is questionable but
not unheard of,some brothers and sisters are close and it shouldn't be an issue. Don't go in guns blazing it's more likely to make them clamp up and don't try listening in,it only makes things more complicated,have a family meeting and air your concerns and hopefully they will feel comfortable enough to talk,hope things work out.

Troll, troll, troll your boat!

if thats a joke its not funny. if its not then get a therapist asap.

Problem with children?
I am Roland a 20 years old boy, i don`t have a kid but i have little sisters and brother, three sister one brother, but the little boy is acting wile towards his sisters and they always have problem`s with every things they are doing,it goes the same with the eldest girl of all the three girls, she feel big and act wily on the other two girls, is as if the oldest are against the little once, every day i had to off other programs stay home make shore every body is find,mom and dad has just travel, i had to absent my classes to keep every thing in other. Mom and dad are back and the four kids are now with mom in their room.

youve posted this question before..

YOU NEED TO BE THE PARENT. GET OFF THE COMPUTER, OPEN THAT DOOR AND ASK THEM WHAT'S GOING ON. If you did that when you first started noticing things you woulodn't have to worry about her being pregnant. i don't mean to sound harsh but it's true. You shouldn't even let them sleep in the same room but especially not with the door closed.