Should my girlfriend have shared a hotel with a male business friend?

Recently my girlfriend went to a business conference out of town. Before she left she asked me if it bothered me that she was going out of town on business with a male colleague. I said no, not at all. When she arrived there she told me that she had all this room in her hotel room because her business friend didn't end up coming. Here is the part that bothers me. They were going to share the room together. Now money isn't an issue with this company and they could have easily got their own seperate rooms. I trust her and don't want to seem posessive. Her business friend just got engaged recently. Do you think there is anything up or are they just good friends who want to have fun partying together? Do you think she decieved me? Most imprtant.. does this go against the right thing to do?

Thats just it. They could have had two sepperate rooms but they decided to share. The other positive is that nothing was holding them back . If they had two seperate rooms they could have messed around anyway. She kind of covered up but then was open about it.

Its just when alcohol is involved it can lead to bad things. Oh well nothing happened!!

Well, lets just put it this way. If you went in a hotel room with a co-worker that was female, would she feel that it was okay?? If you can answer this question, your answer would determine whether it is right or wrong!!

No. Come on. This is very strange behavior. If the company can afford two rooms, it is VERY strange for two differently-gendered employees to share a room. At the very least, it is blurring a professional boundary. It is just very, very strange and inappropriate. Report It

it seems odd to do, but she was so nonchalant and upfront about it that id say prob nothing was happening. just casually say when it isnt coming up that you were a bit uncomfortable about it but that you dont want to make a big deal.

its weird with a business that can afford to send an employee away they normally have seperate rooms especially if its a male and a female. its also weird that she didnt tell you before hand that she was going to be sharing a room with him. its a litle sketchy but i dont think she was doing it to hurt you ro decieve you. and atleast he didnt end up going so she didnt have to share the room!

well me personally i woukd be a little worried and ask her out right because if money wasnt a problem then they could of got ther own seperate rooms. However, here are a few questions you need 2 ask yourself:
1. does she act diffrent now?
2. do u seriuosly believe she would do that to you?
3. do you trust her?
4. do you want 2 no 4 sure or just stick by her and not ask questions?