Are they being nice and including me just so that i dont feel left out (read on)?

thurs afternoon to this afternoon we went to a "leadership conference" for the youth city council. and the kids in the group are all cool kids. and im not so much. im nerdy and kinda obnoxious and weird. and i had to stay in a room w/ 4 other guys, and the other room my age was 4 girls. and the whole time they tended to talk more w/ each other, and kinda included me, like they wanted me to feel included, but didnt like me that much. but i kinda kept trying to put myself into their conversations i think. and then last night they had a dance. and i realized that they dont like me, and they're just bein nice, i think. so i tried to kinda leave the group, cuz they dont like me. and most of them tried a bit to pull me back in, but i fought it. and they just left me alone after trying some. they tried again a bit, but not much. and then they said that they like me, but i doubt it. what do u think?

I think you don't like you. They are trying to be nice but that's part of building a relationship. They don't even really know you but they are trying. Maybe you should try harder to enjoy the company of others and less time trying to pick on all your imperfections. Cool kids aren't as cool as you think ... We all have problems in this world just seems yours like most of us is yourself. Stop looking at who you are today and start looking at who you want to be tomorrow and live life like you already are who you want to be and you will be. Hope this helped. Let them be nice and be nice back and believe they really like you and know that you really like you. It will all work out in the end.

If they tried to pull you back in maybe they do like you. Or else why would they even waste their time? You should stop thinking yourself as "not cool" and include yourself.. sounds like your lack of self esteem is getting in your way. Your probably really great but because you feel otherwise you dont feel like you fit in. Maybe they are just being nice... but who cares, it's better then having no fun and sitting off by yourself. They made an effort and were't being mean to you. Maybe it's you who should be giving them the chance?

If they include you, and don't want to make you feel bad, that means they like you. They would have just told you to go away if they didn't like you. It's nice of them to care that way. Just ask them if they like you, and if you're being any trouble, but they sound like a nice group of people, and you shouldn't be paranoid about it.

If they were only "being nice" they wouldn't have tried but once. It's probably just that you felt awkward, therefore making them uncomfortable. Maybe giving the impression that you feel you are too smart for them etc.
My kids are in h.s., one's an academic, not a size 5, and not a prep, the other is an athlete, tall, muscular and a prep. both have great personalities, both have lots of friends, both are active in church. BOTH HAVE INSECURITIES!!! Both worry if that special person, thinks their special. Both wonder if a new person, likes their personality, thinks they're funny, goofy, or stuck-up.
Seriously, if they didn't like you, they would be happy you had pulled away from the group. Just apologize for having 2left doubts, smile and go on. Give them a chance, and you all might find something you have in common. Obviously, you are all attending a leadership conference for the youth city council, so you all are planning to attend college, care about the community, I'm sure there are other things! ;p
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Sounds like me..You tend to care to much what people think of you...Your to self conscious, I know its easier said than done but just try to be yourself..What helped me over come this is singling one person out at a time to make friends..Its a lot easier than trying to "Fit in" Best of luck !!

li have attended one too....leadership conference is one of a kind activity where you can mingle with different kinds of people from different places and isn't it exciting to meet new friends. you're just paranoid because you're not familiar with those kind of people who. take away those weirdness and join with the group, they won't try to pull you back if they don't like you

i think they do like you n u shu dstop pushing them away when they are attemptin to involve u n mayb even gettin 2 no u betta

They really seem like they arent that into you. You should move on and find a group of friends that really want to get to know you and are genuine people that want to be your friend. If those people in fact really are trying to include you in their circle just go with it you might really like them. Use your best judgement when it comes to finding good friends

How do know they do not like you. I think you are creating your own problems. They are trying to be nice to you. Do not back out.-you might be surprised if you give them a chance.definitely do not put yourself down it will just make things worse. enjoy life

i think that in 10 years, you and the other "nerdy" guys will be rich and the "cool" kids will be fat losers, so don't sweat it either way.

well with popular ppl its always complicated. im not necessarily popular but im still semi friends with the popular groups like i was on a vollyball team with a few and we taled and hung out but then after the leage we were not as close of friends. and thats the way they are there nice to ppl wen they want to be no harm is ussually done i'll tell you now they are prob not going to be your friends but they might if they get to know you but keep in mind the "COOL" crowd are usually jerks and you will grow out of being a lil' nerdy or wat\evr but they will aleays be jerks