Girls, why is she doing this?

There is this girl that i am good friends with. Well she and i are in a class together. She sits next to me and every few minutes she will run her fingers through her hair, fiddle with her pen or paper, touch her face, or put her hands in her lap and like rub them. We our teacher says something funny she looks over at me, laughs, and sometimes says something about it. She never really talks to me though. We hung out b4 school started and we talked alot, but since school started she wont talk to me. She talks to all of her friends and my friends, but never says a word to me. She will sometimes say hi to me in the hall or she will say something about me while i am in the room and laugh about it. When she sits with her legs crossed she has her foot pointing towards me. When we go to conferences and etc. she usually sits next to me. Why is she acting this way? please help me i think she likes me, but im not sure

I found out she has a bf, but she still acts the same way. We had a bonfire one night and she left him to come talk to me about one thing we did this summer. everytime she is with him like at a ball game i catch her looking at me or over in my direction.

she wants you. let me be perfectly honest, just because some one has a boy/girl friend does not mean they aren't interested in something better. just be weary of girls like this...

I dont know what to tell you.....she confused ...and you dont have a clue......you two can not do much for each other....

She seems like the girl whose waiting for you to make the first move. Why haven't you asked her out? Take a chance, it's obvious she's okay with you on a friend level. So what's the harm in asking in a friendly manner. " I know you're seeing someone but I really would like to get together sometime and have dinner, see a movie, drink coke, talk about this summer, ANYTHING> Just let her know you like her, okay. She may just have a boyfriend because he made a move and you didn't.

yea umm probably doesnt like you.. she probably just doesnt know you too well which is why she acts like that..

She may like you. It seems as if she wants to spend time with you and include you in things, and the touching herself thing could be because she knows you're watching or she's nervous.

She may not be talking to you because she realizes she likes you, has a boyfriend, and that it isn't an option for you two to be together right now. And when she avoids you, it could be because she's trying to keep herself from liking you or saying something stupid that would tip you off to her feelings.

Or, she could be oblivious and isn't really in to you, she just acknowledges you from time to time because she knows you two spent time together over the summer and doesn't want to completely blow you off.

*shrug* I'm a girl and even I don't know why we do what we do. Sorry! Best of luck!

Many people, especially girls, are unwilling to make an obvious move because of that old onion - rejection. She seems to be genuinely interested in you and is giving you every prompt in the book. Ask her to do something social but low key - get a coffee to chat about course work or perhaps suggest going to see a film together as you would love her opinion on it.

Speaking as one with loads of guy friends, it's possible she's only interested in you as just that; a guy friend. A lot of the things she does in class are typical girl things that I honestly do even when sitting next to a girl or even on my own. It's just fiddling. It doesn't necessarily mean she likes you.

And the leg crossing thing... Honestly, I was appalled at the messages boys must have thought I'd been sending when I first heard that one. Most girls are not aware of those things until a boy says it, and mean nothing by it. Even if it were true, better to cross her legs toward you, a friend, than the other boy on the opposite side who she may find completely repulsive. Right?

Honestly, it sounds like you might like her and are looking for excuses to ignore her relationship status and persue her anyway. Stop. If she liked you that way, she wouldn't be dating another guy. She obviously likes and respects him enough to stay with him. Maybe it's possible she does have some feelings toward her, but don't encourage them, at least not while she and this guy are dating. I've been cheated on. It hurts. Think about him, okay?

In the mean time, ask her what's up with not talking to you. Confront her, but not aggressively. Tell her you'd like to get to know her better, as a friend. Hang out with her in a group. Not alone. Invite the boyfriend along.