My best friend died how can I handle without her?

Ok my best friend died August 1,2008, she couldn't stop breathing and her parents rush her to the hospital and when they got there her heart stop. She has been my best friend since we were 6. She moved last year to D.C. We talk all the time on myspace and she would call me sometimes. Now I'm not saying my life is upside down its just she has always been there for and helping a lot. I guess this a goodbye which I didn't want it to be. But I have two best friends though who are awesome and if I losed them. I don't know what I would do.

You have to move on.
Thats what she would have wanted
Just remember.
Shell always be in your heart.

The pain will always be there its not easy losing anyone close to you especilly a best friend. My condolences to you and her family. Try even though it may hurt at first and remeber all the good times you shared together. Also talk about your feelings with others don't keep them bottled up its ok to cry just embrace the memories you guys shared togther. Be stong and know that although Gods plans may seem confusing or fustrationg to us at first he is God and there is a divine plan for everyone.

Dont worry it'll be ok she would be watching over u she'd want u to be happy and enjoy ur other best mates dont think bout wat u would do if u lost ur other mates just think bout the time u have with them.......a lifetime
Ur best mate that died will always be in ur heart....give ur self time to grieve and think bout the great things in life ur yet to do and just go 1 day at a time you'll be rite :)

it is a terrible and a hard thing, my daughter lost her best friend and her best friend's little sister in a car accident, (my daughter was also hurt and thrown from the vehicle). it is tough but it will get better, time will fix it. what will help you is how you look at it. if you remember her for who she was, and how she would want you to go on. time really does heal all wounds, and you have a lot of enjoyable life ahead of you. don't be afraid to enjoy it.

This must be a very sad time for you understandably. I suggest doing things you like to keep your mind off it, such as writing, watching movies, whatever you like to do.
It's also important to remember the great times you had together. Create a scrapbook and put in photos of you both, and write down some funny moments you remember.
Instead of feeling down, smile and remember what a wonderful person and friend she was, and how glad you are to have known her.
I hope you feel better soon.
:)

today? im soooo sorry for your loss! everything happens for a reason,even if we dont like it or dont kno what tht reason is..

just live life and remember that shes always with you and live life to the fullest,b/c she wouldnt want you to not live life cuz she cant..

lean on your friends and remember how lucky u r 2 hav them and be a person that when u die,ppl can say how great of a friend youuu were and that u were always there for them..

yet again,im very sorry for your loss..

i'll keep you,and your friends family in my prayers

i am so sorry! i know you can get through it. talk to your parents or maybe a therapist if you are dangerously sad but this is normal. the good die young i guess. :( keep your other friends close and make sure to always tell them how much they mean to you. i am sorry again! be strong!

omg im so sorry. Well she'll always be there wth you :] Everyone experiences death and it really sucks i havent experienced having to lose a friend like that but no one lives forever and people will have to deal with it it can take days weeks years to get over it but you have 2 other bestfriends who should be there for you!

aww im sorry =/ i remember losing someone close to me too and its very hard just take everything slow for a while. things will get better i promise, and think of it this way your best friend wouldnt want you to be sad would they?

Sorry for your lose. All you can do is take it day by day. When you want to talk to her maybe you can call on one of your other friends.

Damm I say cry and let all ur pain out she was your bestfriend and ur going 2 miss her and she'll alwayz be part of your life any of your friends would so at least you can do for her is cry and let her know hom much you miss her

I am really sorry about your best friend. You should talk to a counselor to help you and talk to.

Thats what I do.

I hope this helps.

I know this is hard and I'm sorry about your loss. You need to move on. But remember its always okay to cry. Never let someone tell you its not.

1 day at a time you will get through this

CALL FOR HELP OR FORGET ABOUT IT.

stay strong! she will always be with you!
Im sorry for your loss.

she died today?.. man im so sorry...lean on your friends and the pain will go away in time...

ok i just had a best friend of mine die on june 17th i don't know if you heard about it or not but he was the state trooper that was shot and killed in north carolina on hwy I-40...he was a coach a counsler a big brother and a father figure when mine wasn't there he helped me get out of my abusive home and put me in a better one, so he helped me with everything and you know i didn't even get to go to his viewing or his funeral...but all i can say is go to church you need the help of god. he can't heal you until you let him. i still think about him everyday but i can now talk about it and look at pics without feeling that pain in my heart thanks to god, this is something you can't do alone or it'll only get worse. but i'm so sorry i now this is very hard but it can only get better:-)