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I'm planning a surprise party for my boyfriend...PROBLEM he has no friends other than his ex hoes..?


i'm not being mean, I love my boyfriend to death but he has a history of befriending hoes who don't know when to leave a taken man alone.

Then he has no guy friends. He works sooo much and goes to school full time so the little time he has elft he spends with me.

I'm thinking about inviting the people from work but I really can't think of anything else.


Any suggestions on handling this?

One of the ex hoes as I call them were good friends with his mom (who hates me cuz i'm white but is fake to my face and says i can throw it at her house with his family).
The girl (remina) literally caused my life to be a living hell for a year and a half.


Sorry it's a bit of a rant but i'm in a weird situation.
I just want to make a really nice birthday for my boyfriend. We've worked out our past.


Suggestions?

I'm sorry but I have to address this with you. I think you need to reanalyze yourself with the quickness. For real girl. I take it that your man is black and the mama "hates" you because you seem like one of those white girls who will put up with whatever B.S. the man throws at you because you just want to be with a black dude. I mean, any normal girl is not going to allow any ex-hos in the whole relationship, PERIOD. But white girls always allow this kind of thing when they date a black dude because they just want ANY black dude especially if he looks good, which he very well may or may not. I mean, no boyfriend who takes you seriously would allow some other chickenhead to come in there and make YOUR life ANYTHING. It just doesn't work like that when 2 people care about each other - ni66as just dont bring other women into their territory unless they don't care what happens with the girlfriend or unless it's just a once or twice kind of situation. But his only friends are "ex-hos" and females that want him, etc. That ain't your boyfriend. That a ni66a playin the shyt out of you girl. I don't got nothing but love for my white sistas out there, and I like people in mixed relationships but I have seen it because I'm from the hood and I've seen white girls come and try to infiltrate shyt and unless they are secure with being white and not trying to be black and not worried about what color of skin their man has, they look dumb and get played EVERY TIME. And it's obvious that if your man has nothing but ex-hos around him for friends, that is EXACTLY what's happening with you.

As far as the birthday party, I'm sure he has at least one or two friends, and I'm sure he has cousins, etc. Why not just make it a "get-together," and have some smoke and some drinks and just chill and relax? It doesn't have to be a party with music bumping, etc. If he really don't got nobody but you, then take him out for his birthday. Movies, dinner, hotel, park, boat ride, home-cooked dinner, nice presents, whatever you can think of. It don't gotta be party status. Ya'll could go out and have fun just the two of you.

if he is at school and work all the time... and spends the little time he has left with you, then dont u think it will be a bit much for him to have a surprise birthday... its really nice that you want to do that for him, but, he probably would be tired. Just set up a romantic dinner with him... he would like it and he would also be relaxing at the same time...

Instead of a suprise bday party, why not just have a family dinner or BBQ if the weather is nice? It doesn't sound like it would be much of a party since you're having such a hard time trying to think of people to invite. What matters is just celebrating his birthday and it should be appropriate to who he has around his life right now.

I'd say, don't have a surprise party if there really isn't anyone worth inviting.

Take him some where that you know would mean alot to him, make it a personal birthday with just the two of you. Dress up sexy and take him to a fancy dinner where he'll be so proud to have you on his arm!

like bring some of your friends and his family maybe he will like your friends when he meats them!!Good luck!!

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  • 2 weeks ago

just do something special for him...u and him and maybe one of his hos can come over and you can go down on her for him to watch...

Just have it be a family party, or just you and him out to dinner.

make it a surprise romantic dinner for you two, or for you and his family.

just make it family night. only!

no hoes please.

forget a party.....if theres is nobody to invite then whats the point? dont invite people that his friends or ex-skanks...etc...trust me....it will be a big disappointment....instead plan for something else that will be special just for him...i would stay away from anything family if his mom doesnt like you...why not bed and breakfast at a nice hotel....accompanied with tickets to a concert if there is one that fits in to the time frame....or maybe even spend all night at an amusement park riding every single rollercoaster...if he works a lot he probably hasnt done that since forever....then he is way overdue....besides this is something that can be just you and him and still be fun.,...then dont go home, instead spend the night at a motel...

From what you say, he doesn't sound like surprise party material. He would probably appreciate a nice quiet evening alone with you more than a party with a bunch of people who he'll have to be social with. The fact that you are having a difficult time getting people together is a big hint that this might not be a good idea. If I were you I'd rethink this and maybe make a night out with just you and him. Besides that, his mother that doesn't like you might ruin things by inviting one or more of those hoes you despise so much. That sounds like something she would do just to spite you. Think about it. ';-)

ok. listen carefully....

Step
1. Talk to his parents, if he lives with them, if they could let you in the house early early morning. if he doesnt then steal his key the night b4 and come early early in the morning...
2. Bake a cake, by yourself, don't buy it.
3. Buy ballons and bright colored index cards, jsut not exactly index cards, something that is easier to fold.
4. how ever old he is plus one. lets say 20. so write 21 little cute/sexy/inside jokes notes on those neon colored index cards. on one of the notes tell him to check the refrigirator. (where you put the cake).. on another tell him where to meet you, what time, and how to dress (take him out to fancy dinner).
5. come to his house the day of his bday in the morning/night when he is still sleeping....
6. blow up the 21 (or w.e) ballors and stick the notes that you have written in them... scatter them all over the room, possibly hiding them someone, maybe his bedroom. if he is not a light sleeper, then in his bedroom....
7. write a note instructing him to pop the balloons. and put the note somewhere where he will definately see it right when he wakes up...
8. you can also get happy birthdya signs, helium balloons, confeti, and the colorfull toilet paper thing to throw around the room.

if you can't do it at his house, then do this in yours, meet him, give him the key and tell him to meet you at your house at w.e hour. but don't come. when he is going to pop the balloon where it tells him where to meet you, he'll get the point and go there....


this solves your 'he has no friends' problem, and is a great surprise. =))))

googluck.

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