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I will make this as short as I can...About 7 years ago i was involved with a girl who had a son a few days before we got together. We broke up 3 years ago. Back then his dad wanted nothing to do with him and he started calling me dad. This little guy has become my best friend and I get him twice a week. I had to work overtime this week and called his mom and told her. She flew off the handle and told me I am not allowed to see him anymore. I didn't really know what to say to her except why and then she proceeded to tell me about myself. I then noted to her that she was a bad mother for ignoring her son and told her if I ever catch her drinking and driving with the boy in the car I will be the one that called CPS on her. She then told me if I ever call him or pick him up again she will file charges. I don't really know what to do. His father is back in his life now (on occasion). Everyone is telling me to let him go but I don't know what to do. Whats best for him? If you have had visitation with him continually through all this time, you can file to keep the visitation, but it will be a legal battle that will cost you and you have a 50/50 shot. What it depends on is ultimately the judges opinion. If you feel the child is in a bad environment, you need to go with your conscience. Keep a diary of dates and times, what was said, etc so you can keep your options open. Give her a few days to cool down and call again. She may change her mind. Talk to a lawyer if you want. They usually give a free consult and will know how the judges in your area tend to rule. Sounds like you have been used mate, to be honest a convenient babysitter. If you feel that the child whom you have grown close to is in any form of danger then report it. Doesn't matter what your ex thinks, it is the child that matters. You may lose contact with this child but its better than knowing that you stood back and did nothing. Just hope that the child will make up its own mind later. Either way better to know you help the child get a good start in life and allowed it to live than to spend every weekend sat near a grave stone saying how sorry you are and all the what ifs. Do the decent thing mate either way its the little child that needs you now more than ever. |
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