I don't know what to do with her?

Here goes: My GF and I were together 1.5 years. Exactly 1 month ago, she broke up w/ me b/c:"She was not IN love with me anymore and there is no passion". We were very in love and Best friends. This was hard to handle b/c she always looked to me to help her with everything and I enjoyed doing everything as a couple. 1 week later I called and said I still want her in my life, shes too important to me even if its not as GF. She said she couldnt right now, she needed a clean break. I did not contact her at all. Last monday she called and said she had some clothes of mine and wanted to meet up and give me. also mentioned she lost her surf teacher (me).we spoke Mon. and Agreed to meet Friday (yesterday) after 5pm (she worked). I did not get a call yesterday and dint know if i should call her to confirm. I didnt call and she didnt so we didnt meet up. I dont know what to do. I felt her start to reach out on the phone last week. I am confused and should i call her, or let her come to me.?

I think that your question, is not your problem.

Your problem is that you still want someone who does not want you.

Find another girl! that way the old one will see (a) that you are a real man, and not her pet (b) what she is missing.

goodluck.

face it...it's over. the sooner you face it the better. contact with her only makes it harder for both of you and keeps the hope of getting back together alive (which is not going to happen).

i know you are hurting and so is she. no contact is really the best according to the experts.

Call her and ask her what is it that she wants? Tell her she is sending mixed signals and you can't continue on this way. Tell her how you feel about the situation and that you will not allowe her to take advantage of your feelings.

let her come 2 u