GUYS ANSWER THIS please?

my boyfriend for 6 yrs packed up and left me over 6 weeks ago. he said he couldn't handle another summer with my jealousy.I do controll him alot,he still returns my calls says he will meet me, but never does.shortly after that i found out i was pregnant!! i know he has been partying with both male and female office colleagues.some nights his phone will be switched off.sometimes he will let me listen to some female colleague laughing at me. then he will get some male colleague to ask him questions about where he has been next day when i call.he will let me overhear the conversation. mey fella will say he was playing poker with the boys and name them all one by one.what is he playing at?

Hes playing at getting the hell away from you. Nobody wants to be with a jealous controlling mate. Sorry about you being knocked up (if that is true, sounds like another way for you to try and control him). If you don't deal with these issues in your life then you are either going to find yourself in this same situation over and over again or find yourself married to some puss who doesn't mind getting pushed around be some controlling broad. Either way sucks for you.

He's not interested in being with you, that's for certain, also. He's saying leave me alone and quit asking where he's been.
He is telling you the truth where he's been and giving you everyones name who was there, but you still think he's a liar.

He may be a liar, but your broken up, so it does not matter anymore.

Tell him your pregnant with his baby, if you have not already done so.

Damn woman, this is the third post you've made asking the same question. I tried to give some stable advice but, holy crap lady. I honestly feel if you are this crazy in real life, he really did himself a favor by running for dear life. I know that pregnancy emotions are tough to deal with but, you really need to get control of yourself. I highly suggest getting some counseling and a very good therapist.

For whatever reason he is being vindictive. He must feel that you were hurting him by being a control freak. I would hate it too. BUT the way he's paying you back is petty and cruel. Its a problem that you are pregnant. will he believe you? Or think its another attempt to control him. Cant advise you sorry. Good luck though.

Hi, you have just asked the same question but did'nt mention anything about being pregnant, only that he dumped you because you are a jealous control freak. So I will tell you again, he dumped you because you are a CONTROL FREAK. So stop asking the same question and adding bits into it.

playing at???
what does that mean?
i would guess texas holdem if he is playing poker...
my guess is that you were a little to controling...
you are freaking out over things like his phone being off........sounds a bit obsessive
idont know, but why are still trying to hang around this guy anyway?

I'd tell him you're pregnant, assuming it's his, and then move on. You can't make him be involved any more than you can make him stop being a dick. Good luck

HE IS TRYING TO TELL TO LET YOU KNOW .....THAT HE ISNT READY TO BE AN ADULT AND SETTLE DOWN !!! .... IF I WAS YOU ID CUT YOUR LOSSES AND MOVE ON

don't be too hard on yourself I mean he might have needed space ? Have u told him your prego? If so then he's an *** and u will find a perfect daddy for your baby . If you haven't told him do so !!

Move on, then.

He is constantly Playing with u. yea he was playing with u since 6 years

oh man..sorry to hear that..the child is his? to me he's a bastard girl..move on..

Extreme jealousy and controlling behavior will drive most males and females out of a relationship, in fact "control" is a form of Abuse. Your boyfriend tolerated your behavior for 6 years before he bailed on you, which tells me he must truly have loved you to put up with your abuse that long. His actions now are those of a person who is finally free from a captor and prison, it is also his way of telling you how much you hurt him. Yes, he is being rather childish by playing games......the phone calls, the colleagues, conversations and parties, BUT he is showing how deeply he was hurt and affected by your behavior. Your FIRST priority is the unborn child, and you had better have told him that you are expecting. DO NOT start playing games and using the baby as a weapon against him or to force him to do something, that is nothing more than a form of control. I strongly recommend that you get some counseling, have a face to face talk with your ex and start acting like an adult. Your unborn child deserves BOTH parents, and the opportunity to grow up in a Healthy, Loving enviroment, and it is now up to you and your ex to GROW UP, work out your differences and accept your responsibilities.