Is my anger justified?

During a crazy time in my boyfriends life he met a girl who I'll call L. They didnt date but she did end up pregnant. He was going to take responsibility like a man should. Shortly after she announced this to him he and I met and couldnt stay away from one another. I knew about L from the begining. We became serious as a couple but he kept in touch with L until she up and dissappeared for about a month. He tired to contact her and even went to her house but to no avail. Suddenly he got a call from her claiming she lost the baby and was going to sue him because it was his fault. She said if he left me and lived with or married her she would drop the case. Everything was handled because her case was stupid. He didnt even have to go to court. These days she constantly calls him and even though he says its annoying he wont let me block her number for him because he might need to call her. Why the hell should he need to call her now? Do I have any right to be angery?

Yes you do..sorry to say but if the child is lost and he wasnt going to be with her even if she never became pregnant than there should be no reason for him to talk to her now. more so after she pulled what she did. if he really does not want her around than he should put a restrant on her and block her call. if he fights with you about this than there might be another reason why he wont let her go. you really should get to the bottom of what he is doing and why befor you have child with him or say 'i do' having another girl around that only wants to brake you two up is not good for either of you and if you two want to be together than she should not be in the picture. tell him how you feel and if he wont let her go than maybe theres something wrong on his part of this and you should really find out what.

Anger is anger, of course you have a right to be angry, but are you really angry? or are you more hurt and annoyed, and upset that someone is trying to steal away your boyfriend.

he might need to call her because she might not have truely lost the baby, it all depends, you'd need to get on the inside of the situation.

that chick is crazy!! if I was in your shoes I would be upset with him. I find it very odd that he "might need to call her." he has all he needs right infront of him, what does L have to offer him that you don't?? maybe DRAMA??? don't get angry with him, just sit him down and tell him how you feel. draw the line, you don't need that kind of bs in your life.

I think that you are fully justified to be angry. You should sit down with him and explain to him that there is no need for them to talk anymore and he needs to either move on and be with you or go back to her. It sounds to me that he still has thing for her and is keeping it from you. Sit and talk to him and tell him that it bugs you before it gets to bad. Goodluck!

No, you don't, if what you're angry about is him keeping her number. She was bearing his child, which would have been very emotionally taxing on him, especially when she disappeared. Him keeping the number doesn't mean he isn't committed to you... it just means he may have strings he left untied from his past.

Does he answer her calls? I personally would NOT allow an ex ANYTHING to call my boyfriend, esspecially one that has been trying to convince him to leave me. You need to put your foot down and not allow this at all. He has no reason to talk to her, and if he knows it makes you this angry he should have no problem blocking her number.

Personally .....this is waaaaay too much baggage for me to put up with....... I would kick it to the curb and run for the hills on this one.......it is ALWAYS going to be baggage from him/her due to this and I doubt it is going to get easier for him.I would forget being angry and just move on.

I think you have a right to be angry, but I would tell you with all the experience I have to get out of the relationship with him. She is controlling him and it will never stop. You will never be happy in this relationship.

Yes, you do. If he loved you he would not receive her calls and he should have no need to call her.

Leave him. You can do much better. It will be his loss, not yours.

Yes...i would be very angry...it's evident that she still has a hold on him, if he can't let her go..then i think if i were you that i would let "him" go.

You deserve much more than that from a man..much more..

Good Luck..

YES YOU HAVE ALL RIGHT TO BE ANGRY AND YOU STICK TO IT CAUSE HE NEEDS TO BE WORRYING ABOUT YOU AND NOT TRYING TO HOLD ON TO HER FOR WHATEVER REASON.

You are a homewrecker if you would have kept it in your pants who knows what would have happened and he is a dirtbag

yeah looks like you got a stalker on your hands and i would put a stop to it before it get more outta control

Ouch, he sure knew how to pick'em! Not you, her. She sounds like a psycho. He sounds stupid, does he know what she did during that month? Did she actually lose the baby, or have an abortion that he's unaware of? Was there even a baby? As some women crazy enough to do what she's doing have been known to lie about being pregnant. And you, well, you sound sane, but why are you here asking us this, when you SHOULD be asking him why he'd feel the need to call a woman who tried to sue him because she lost his child? Be angry, but, be ready for the truth as it could be something you won't want to hear. However, go talk to your man, tell him how he's making you feel by taking her calls, and then ASK him why he wants to keep talking to her if she's so annoying.
Good luck!