There is a guy! This question is for the girls only.?

My ex has a new girlfriend. We went out for three years. This year in august would have been our four year aniversery. Well anyways his girlfriend now has got some problems with me. She doesn't even know me. Me and my ex stayed friends after we broke up. Is that normal? Well when she found out she put this voice mail on his phone that said not to call him or text him ever again. Well later on in the message she said that his mom said that. Well I got one thing. His mom loves me. So please tell me how I should handle this situation. I have to do this POLITELY but if i didn't have to do this politely it would have already been done. But i wil take some unpolite ways to handle it too...
SO if you can help thank you...

Okay why would I be Jealous If I am the one that told him to go suck a donkey dick? And he said that he was going to break up with me anyways to go out with my BESTFRIEND so I think the last thing I am going to do is Back OFF... Otay...

She sounds like a ***** a friend of mine went through this and she just ignored her. She probably just thinks you're trying to get back with him and she's jealous. I'm friends with my ex and we went back and forth for a year. Don't pay attention to her, just tell her you are friends with him and that's all. If she doesn't like it, too bad.

talk to ur ex boyfriends mom about if for advice

There is nothing wrong with being friends with your ex, I think that is a good thing. But ppplleaasse take my advise b/c I've been in a similar situation. It is not always the best idea to stay friends right away, especially when he is moving on.

Because you are probably jealous, or at least sad about it in some way. You would really hate it if you had a new bf and his ex kept calling him. It is just a hard situation. But try and respect his girlfriend and back off a little bit. Definitely stay in touch, but maybe try not to talk as often.

I think like u said u should handel this in a polite way show her that u don't need to be rude to her that well show her that u are way mature then her, she is just jelouse and if she trusted him she woun't be acting this way's to you. she is just insecure and she want's to make trouble for u and your ex so u 2 will start fiting and not talk to each other. Just tell her u need to talk and that there's no reason why she should be doing stuff like that and starting stuff that dosen't have to be started if she takes it the wrong way then that's is her problem. good luck =)