I'm so depressed and my mom is going to give me an eating disorder!!?

I don't know where to begin. Today my parents came back from nyc. My moms moving her business and so she's never home. My dad is never home either so most the time its just me and my lil brother. I have a loving boyfriend who is my rock and the person who makes me feel the love I need. I have no friends so when I'm upset I have nobody i can talk to besides my bf. Anyways my mom is constantly picking fights with me about my boyfriend. She doesn't like him or his family because he is "fat". She calls him obese but he is simply just fat. Today after she came home and saw me wearing a skirt getting ready to go into the village to see my bf she told me I was getting fat and that when I go to see him I better not eat or drink anything at the cafe. This upset me because this arguement is recurring and it just never ends. She says I eat too much and that its my bf who is trying to make me fat! Now I'm 5'8 and am 150 pounds. I am athletic and would in no way call myself fat or overweight.
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I stood up for myself and told her that she's wrong for blaming him. She blames him for everything whether it be my lack of interest in her business or my shift of weight and I can't take it! She told me she hates me and can't wait till I leave the house for college. I'm 16 by the way. I just want my bf because he is the only person who I feel is there for me without him I am alone in every way. I am an honors student and I feel my mom does not appreciate that all she can do is bring me down. She is obsessed with weight she lost 20 pounds after months of constant complaining about not finding clothes. She says I'm too fat to wear a bikini. I feel like I HAVE to lose weight even tho I think I look great in my body if I want to be able to keep my boyfriend who is the blame. I cry my eyes out constantly when nobody knows because I can't handle the stress of my mother. What should I do?

You have 2 choices.

You can just ignore her comments and live your life. Forget about what she says, if you feel good about yourself then you don't need to worry.

Or you can sit down and tell her there is no need to judge your boyfriend, if he is there for you then it shouldn't matter his weight. And then you need to tell her you don't feel that your fat and that your happy with how you look.

You can also talk to your dad about this sometime. Let him know that it hurts you and that he should talk to her about it with her sometime also.

Keep standing up for yourself, but dont use it as an excuse to be aggresive, she has no right to say she hates you.

dude hang in there trust me it will all resolve itself go for a walkorsomething stay cool.

i feel for you i "had" a mother like that everything that came out her mouth was to put me down either about my weight, personality or simply how i looked, funny cause ppl say i look alot like her, best thing for you to do is sit down with her calmly and tell her how you feel, it is goin to be hard at first b/c these kinds of mother sometimes are stubborn and dont know how to express themselves to thier kidds, tell her that she will give you an eatin disorder by tellin you things like that tell her you are happy with the way you look, i dnt know what you look like but even if you were fat she shouldnt make you feel that way, please try to work it out with her , i gave up on my mother and our relationship i havent spoken or seen her in 2 years it got to the point where i rather keep it that way we've pretty much disowned eachother, but sometimes pretendin everyday i dnt have one makes me sad so dont let that happen with you and your mother dont let her keep talkin to you like that but be respectful, remember a mother is someone you should have close to you , supportive and non-judgemental, someone you could talk to about anything. sometimes i wish i hadnt given up on her but i'm tooo prideful to try again. Make her listen and listen to her to and maybe she will understand you, and i know it might not work the first time but try again