Am i naive to care?

I listened to tons of people over the years tell me there problems, and no matter if it鈥檚 something little or big I listen and I help them. I try to make them feel better about the situation and tell them solutions. But somehow none of them ever ask me how I鈥檓 doing or if I need to talk. Sometimes I try and talk about my problems and they鈥檒l interrupt me and talk about how much homework they have or something like that. Each time that happens I feel like I鈥檓 being stabbed, does anyone in this world care about anyone else, why do I listen to all these peoples problems and none of them can manage to give me anytime at all. My mothers the worst she doesn鈥檛 even remember what I鈥檝e said 1 minute later, and I have to fight to finish a sentence without interruption. I鈥檝e learned not to try and talk to her, but somehow I thought that other people would be different. I know I鈥檓 overly sensitive and very passionate but I鈥檓 not one to overreacting, if anything I always forgive too easily and keep the hurt inside. I just want to be cold hearted I don鈥檛 want to be used and ignored; I want to not care or help them or give advice. I think they wouldn鈥檛 be able to handle it if I acted like they did when I try to talk to them. I鈥檓 just tired of caring and helping and all I get is walked on and I think I finally no longer like people. What I mean is I always initially loved anyone and would do whatever to help them, even give my life; you can call it na茂ve or insane but no matter what you want to call it. I think it鈥檚 gone, I think I finally see, people are mean, heartless, selfish and they鈥檙e not worth the pain of caring about them. I know I haven鈥檛 stated a question yet, but I guess it鈥檚, should I give up hope, just come to realization of how people are. Or should I keep on believing they are worth loving. And is they鈥檙e anyone who feels like there鈥檚 no one to talk to, or who鈥檒l even care about what you have to say. Thank you to anyone who read this or gave an answer, it means a lot; and I appreciate it from the bottom of my heart.

This is a great question. Do not give up hope. You sound like a great person so keep it up. We need people like you. Have faith and continue to love. We all feel like that sometimes but do not change the great person you are. You will eventually recieve your reward and although it seems like many people don't care, many do. Please keep up the wonderful work. If no one else I appreciate what you do and the love yougive to others. Kepp caring and being a great person, you will be reward eternally for your wonderful actions.
Have faith don't stop caring and keep up the great work.

SAY "SFW" thats soofuckingwhat!! and when you turn 18 go and be everything everyone thought you couldnt be and prove them wrong!!

i was exactly like that...until now. i was really tired of feeling used for everything. so i was a total ****** to the perrson i really care for. i have some things they said...

anyone who gave a damn would've got right to that ****, especially after what you did, but no not you! of course you didn't even f care enough to try and set things right. YOU were the one that f*8 up yet I was the one trying to fix things. i should've just given up right then, and the sad thing is you would've let me too.
or what about the times i've gotten so pissed that i was like "i give up, i don't wanna talk to you anymore and i don't care anymore" and you were just like "fine, go. i can't change how you feel, why should i try?"

i don't know what to do now, to show them i do care. more than anything :|||


the thing is i guess people take you for granted. expect you to be there for them as their little pet. you dont get anything for it. im really sorry...and i know how that feels.

if you have yahoo, talk to me?
catherine_figura@yahoo.com