Calling all men, how would you react and feel if this happend to you?

You are attracted to a girl 14 years younger than you after a divorce you recently went through. You see her outside one night and she is obviously drunk and hitting on you. You are sober. So you take her to your place and almost have sex but lose your erection. How would you handle that? just out of curiosity?

guys he is 38

you should be ashamed at taking advantage of someone while they are drunk. I can condone your actions. Something my grandpa always says "thrill before the chill" , "it may be fun right now, but the next day holds the problem." get your head of of your *** and be man. your better than this man, sorry about your divorce, hopefully you will learn something.

Could simply be nervousness that caused it or some other thought he had like the fact that she was drunk. If the divorce is fresh and or he's just starting to date now then it's not that difficult to see that as a possibility anyway on a first encounter. If they are truly into each other they will try again and it will likely work just fine.

he was probably nervous. He was with one woman for years thus he was in a comfort zone, now he is with a new woman and is nervous and is anxious to please, but that combination will leave a man unable to perform. Next time you see him don't put any pressure or expectations on him and his chances of getting an erection will be a lot higher.

It is too soon for you to be in another relationship. Evidently you are still carrying unresolved issues from your last relationship.
The youth of the person..excited you at first....but now you are afraid that you cannot keep up. Sex is not everything.....you have to be in your comfort zone to get a hard-on that lasts.
You being sober..made you face your issues...if you wanted to get laid..you should have got messed up.

with tears of sorro or a good sense of humor ... look it has lost the will to dive down that deep dark hole of which he has no idea where it has been. Can't say I blame him. It's not like I wasn't going to place a beg over his head before jabbing it in and out of that deep dark hole until it puked all over itself. I mean come on that sounds like a blast to me.

Could always toss out ... There isn't enough blood to go around. Thinking of you brought all the blood to my heart.

Id get a second chance with that line at a later date. Awwwww.

i'd have to be at least 32 years old.. and even then, that's PUSHING IT.

and there really isn't much to do at that point.. just admit that you are having erectile issues and call it a night. most men are so embarrased, they come up with excuses to save face.

i would just wait until later *wink* lol

This may have occured because you knew she was drunk and that may have turned you off. Maybe, subconciously you felt you were taking advantage of her?

if i was a guy:

yes it would suck but i'd pay no attention to it and move on to other things. like kiss her neck.....play with her...eat pie....and just foreplay. then when i'm ready i'd walk my ***** through the doors of perception.....

extend the foreplay/oral until captain erectile returned to duty.... and if it didn't then I would return my man card, move out of the country and change my name out of shame.

I'm not a dude but i would feel like a piece . Not for taking her home because anybody could've done that and wirse. But trying to have sex with her while she drunk come on. And i missed my erection

You didnt specify why the erection was lost. Was it because of guilt or was it because of a natural dysfunction?

Take the incident as a sign that the guy should not be trying to take advantage of a drunk girl who is also far too young for him.

so i'd be attracted to a 6 year old? WTH!

well if i were older, i guess that'd be different. as for me, i'd be pissed but it's really not that difficult to get it going again lol

well hes obviously a d..k h..d guy coz not many men, AND BELIVE not many men would take advantage of a drunk girl ESPECIALLY if he was sober, he just soinds rong

So, she's almost two years old huh? That's cool, but I didn't know I was like that 0_o



As you can see I'm a little young to properly answer...

I think I'd be a very sick freak if I was attracted to a drunk 5 year old who was hitting on me.

hopefully she doesnt remember it happening and get some viagara in case you catch her the next time. Its a bad way to pick up girls, this is just an exception. It will relieve your stress

NOT ME I WOULD SHOW HER HOW TO WAKE HIM UP TRUST..... IF I WAS LIKE HUGH HEFNER OLD I GUES I WOULD ALLREADY HAVE THE VIAGRA READY :)

I'd be fine with, sometimes erections come and go. That's life. No loss to me, you'd be too drunk to be a good lay anyway.

If I was attracted to a girl 14 years younger than me, I'd be a pedophile! I'm 27!

its totally normal, i dont beleive age should get in the way of love and its totally fine. what you think goes.

I would probably avoid her for the rest of my life.

first of all....ewwww! why would any guy even go that far.

but if that happened i would put her in bed with a bucket and leave.

Why would i be molesting a baby that wasn't even born yet?!

Hahah if I was a guy, i would be soooo pissed. But from my perspective...thats hilarioussssss

viagra?

Try it again.

wonder why a 1 year old is drunk

Don't be so hard on yourself man ;-)

story of my life...

thats the randomest thing i ever heard of in my life