Bitter Ex Psycho!?

In what way should I handle my husbands "other child's mother". I woke up to her drunk calling our home and cell phone about 20 times leaving message after message (texts & voice). The cops wont do anything but make a report (which doesn鈥檛 do anything to make her quit). I assume just never answer the calls - will she quit? She is very childish and drinks 24/7 and then gets crazy and wants to argue with me. I JUST changed our # and she found it out by calling my job and acting like someone else.

actually he cheated on me before we were married with her and Yes i have tried to be civil. In fact just yesterday i answered the phone and tried but all she does is flip out and yell and act psycho and irrational

maybe try a restraining order against her. not letting have any contact what so ever with you..if she breaks it she will go to jail.

Change your numbers and block her calls girl! they have phones that will only accept the calls in your memory! and then go to court, she is harrasing you, she has no reason to call you so many times and she has no reason to call you at work, they will give you a court order so she wont be allowed to call no more.

go to court and get a restraining order. this isn't hard to do.

my ex was doing the same thing to me (we have a child together). he would call me 20-30 times a day and send multiple text messages too-often in the middle of the night.

I went down and got a modified restraining order so he is now only allowed to contact me on the days we exchange our daughter and only for 5 mins at a time. the only other time he can call is if my daughter needs emergency medical treatment.

she is harrassing you and the only way to stop it is to get the restraining order. that way, if she violates it-she can go to jail.

file a restraining order against her.
Sue her for harrassment

At my work, you WILL be fired if you give out any co-workers personal information to anyone for any reason. The MOST we can do is take the caller's information and then call the co-worker and give the caller's information to the co-worker.

try a mediation session to try and work out a civil relationship for the sake of both children. If shes not open to that ditto with everyone else.

goodluck.

have you ever talked to this ex civally? maybe you and your husband should talk to her. i don't know if he left her for you or what the story is. she is probably depressed. maybe a little compassion and understanding might help her.

theres only one answer and many have given it already - a restraining order

good luck x

restraining order

Whomever gave out your home or cell number at your work should be slapped. You ask will she quit? Not if she likes to get sauced up. Your best bet to get this to stop is to go to Court with your Ex and ask the Judge to make an Order that his new wife NOT be allowed to call you since this all ties in with your kids, your divorce and your ex plus his crazy new wife. Even consider asking the Judge to put a restriction on the time of day and length of time your Ex can call and do not include the new wife calling. That way if crazy continues then he would be held accountable for violating the Court Order (sounds mean but HE needs to get a handle on her drinking, her behavior, who knows; he may just be instigating her actions). After all she is not your responsibility to handle. HANG UP when she calls until you can put a stop to this in a Court. You could also try a restraining order. Save those texts and those messages!!!! You may possibly need them in Court.