How do you handle it when she tells you we need to talk about something and then keeps putting it off for a wk

We were supposed to meet last Monday because I had the day off. She text me and said she had to go to dr and would call when she got out cuz she needed to talk to me about something. Then she said she had stuff come up and wasn't going to be able to make it and could we meet Tuesday when she had time to talk about it. She said I would understand. Then on Tuesday I text her and said lets me at 3 and she said okeydokey. Then at 1 she said its going to be more like 5 before I can leave. I said ok. Then about 3 she said she was sick and could we talk on phone or meet another day. I said sure. About 7 I text her and ask when we could talk and she said it would be tomorrow she was too sick. Then about 8 she accidentally calls me when trying to call her sister and sounds drunk. I text and ask her if she was drunk and she said that hurts I'm sick. So the next day I see a charge on my credit card for a bar. I call her and she said she got drunk and took some stuff and tried to kill

herself. I tried to talk to her but she just got upset everytime I asked anything. I told her that she could have just said she didn't feel like seeing me instead of saying she was sick and leading me to believe we would meet all day and then doing this instead. She said she had to work and we would meet on Thursday. Thursday she text me and said she called her aunt when she was drunk and they were worried and coming to see her that day so we would have to talk next week. The suspense is killing me. I asked her if she was seeing someone else and she didn't answer. I asked her if she was mad that I asked and she said she was mad at the situation, which makes me believe she is seeing someone else. Also I told her monday that when she said she wanted to talk it made me feel like she was going to dump me and she said how can I do that when we haven't said what we are yet? Then later she said she was joking. We have been seeing each other for over a year now.

i have a similar situation with someone whom i have no romantic interest in, but still a vested interest in discussion. for whatever reason, it just never seems to pan out when we plan to meet and talk.

you just have to be patient and hope that time will come. in the meantime, answer a lot of questions on yahoo.

Firstly, cancel your credit card!!!! That's your credit card!!! She could be seeing someone else and using your credit card!

Secondly, time will reveal the true self. I would call her one time and say if you need to talk to me about anything I am here. Otherwise that's it!

Lastly, let her come to you, don't be a wussy and keep texting her!
Right now she is punking you! Get off the lease dog, and go out with the boys, work out, play sports, and concentrate on you.