How to break up with this FOOL???

a guy i've been dating for almost 2 months just suddenly ignore my calls ( been 1 wk now).....i see him every saturday at a meeting...
the last time i saw him, he looked sooo guilty..even my friends could tell!

ok, i'm breaking up with him tonight on "voice message" because he doesn't pick up my calls and he doesn't reply my messages!

i left him a message to make sure he calls me tonight..it's been 3 hrs and he hasn't called yet!!!

How do i break up in a mature way!!!

i really think dropping a voice message is the best right now cos he will keep avoiding me and all....

how do i handle his childish behavior!!!

do you think a relationship of 2 months is really a RELATIONSHIP???

i'm thinking, maybe he just isn't taking it as serious as i am???

Well, it doesn't sound like there's anything to break up from. Maybe the "bf" aspect of it all, was just all in your mind. Maybe he was just in it to win it and when you gave it up, he scored and the game was over.

Further still, maybe he recognizes it is him you are talking about on this board.

I hope none of that is the case, of course, but think of the possibilities and protect your emotional self. Confront him before, during, or after a Sat. meeting -- or -- since you've made your decision to break up anyway, and since he's already started acting like there's a break-up, simply leave it alone and go on with your life.

Good luck.

To be blunt, 2 months is nothing. If he isn't answering your calls, a voice message is good..but if you want to be very mature, write a letter. He seems like a jerk, and it doesn't seem like you have feelings for each other.

It's possible he is scared to break up with you and has gone on to cheating, hence the guilty face?

i could be wrong, but there is no harm in thinking it is a possibility

good luck with everything, hope it all works out well.

Well.. it would appear to me.. that perhaps he thinks you did something.. and in a childish way is mad at you.. so he doesn't talk to you. Giving you the cold shoulder. I personally would just stop calling him. Show no interest.. don't even look at him at the meeting.

He's feeding off your multiple attempts to get a hold of him. Just forget about the guy.

2 months isnt long at all... and he prob. isnt dedicated. Id just break up with him over voice mail... it was only 2 months and he doesnt sound like he was dedicated so do it over voice mail. If he wants to talk he can always actually man up and call you. lol. Best of Luck.

You can leave him a message but be sure that you and him must talk personally to end your relationship in a mature way and for him to make an explanation in his part.

Seems to me that if he won't answer your calls, he has already made that call. If you see him on Saturday's at meetings, then maybe you should talk with him face to face there.

Tell him you don't want to see him anymore.

End of story. Why is this so complicated?