My boyfriend is going to the navy and for rite now he wants to be friends what should i do?

My boyfriend and i have been togther for two years now hes my highschool sweetheart. He has recently told me that he cant handle a relationship rite now because hes never gonna have time to see me because hes always workin and when hes not working hes with the recuters doing excersise cuz they want him to drop 15 pounds. Well we broke it off yesterday and he tells me that he still loves me and that he doesnt want me to fall in love with another guy while he goes off to bootcamp. he also told me that once he gets out of bootcamp hell come back and will get back together and get married. he told me that he cant handle a relationship rite now because his life is to busy he aslo said that if he cant see me and that he doesnt want to be with me but he still calls me baby and tells me that he loves me what should i do???

WELL I'M IN THE NAVY AND YES HE'S PROBABLY STRESSED OUT RIGHT NOW IT CAN BE VERY HECTIC GOING THROUGH BOOT CAMP WHILE TRYING TO MAINTAIN A RELATIONSHIP BOOT CAMP IS ONLY SIX WEEKS SO GO HAVE FUN AND DO SOMETHING WITH YOUR TIME DURING HIS BOOT CAMP. AND IF HE REALLY LOVES YOU HE WILL COME BACK FOR YOU. BELIEVE ME HE WILL BE STRESS FREE ONCE HE LEAVES GREAT LAKES. JUST TRUST IN HIM AND HAVE FAITH. IF HE DOSENT FOLLOW THROUGH WITH HIS PROMISE ,HIS LOST. YOULL BE OKAY!

well it's all your choice now. If you really love him, wait until he comes back, but If you feel you should move on and date other people, by all means, do so. He may also fall in love with someone else while he's away at bootcamp...you never know, and you dont want to be waiting for him like a fool. If you really really love him then wait for him to come back. Make sure you both agree that you won't see other people. I think you should wait until he returns.

Give em the benefit of the doubt. maybe he just doesn't wanna hurt you by you thinking that he doesn't want to spend time with you, when in reality, its that he can't spend all the time and dedication that you need :)

I think he's being honest, and just want the best for both, he probably thinks that by trying to spend the time but not being able to, might just end up causing issues in the relationship... if its healthy right now, let him have his time.... If you're meant to be, he'd come back ...

well if you love him you will be strong and brave and wait until he gets out and can be with you and marry you. its up to you. if you dont love him and feel like its better if you see other people, then do that. its all in your hands now.

Be friends. Let him know that it may or may not last, for either of you. If he wants to marry you, you'll be engaged before he goes off to boot camp.

Well he broke up wtih you yet hes stil lacting like your together and that you can't date? That sounds like he doesn't want the pressure of a relationship but still the same standards. Maybe guilt free sex while hes away too. I personally would make him choose it seems too unfair to me. You broke up with me but yet I'm not allowed to date. Eh, it's really just what you want. If you believe hes worth it then yes wait for him, it will make your relationship stronger. But then again will you love him whiles hes away for however long and comes back?