For committed Mormons: I think my husband is cheating on me.What should I do next?

I have a wonderful husband that I love with all my heart and have always felt reciprocity. Recently I had to be taken in for an urgent surgery and was in the hospital for a week. I just came home and have observed a weird behavior from him. I found out there's this girl that's calling him. He is careful to delete all incoming and outgoing calls, but he forgot to do it once. I found out that he is cheating on me. I haven't told him what I know yet, but it's really killing me. I am still at home recovering from my surgery, but in the meanwhile, I am going crazy. It was really hard to see him partake of the sacrament so easily on Sunday. I don't understand how this can happen. I have prayed and it's hard for me to know. Off course, my first thoughts are to yell at him, slap him and divorce him. But...is there any better way to handle this? Please let me know what you think I should do.

I am not a Mormon but I know how sacred Mormons consider marriage and I do feel for you. Could you talk to someone at your Church? You must feel very alone right now and perhaps speaking to someone confidentially to get perspective on the situation would be a good idea.
I NEVER condone cheating and feel strongly that if my beloved husband did this I would divorce him in the blink of an eye! but your husband, like mine, sounds like a good and loving man and there is the possibility that he's having some sort of crisis which would be worth exploring before taking drastic action.
Good luk. You are in my thoughts.

hey if i were you then trick him!!!

say that you are going to live with your mom or dad for a night or just say your going out for the night like ahead of time then make sure the girl comes home and attach a camera in all the rooms or wai t outside the bedroom window then open your mouth

I have been raised in the LDS church by my grandfather, when I was younger and I had a problem such as this I sought counsel with our bishop, and he was alway quite helpful as well as supportive, perhaps you could do the same?

Mormons have plural marriage so it is not cheating.

he is not cheating is all in your head....postraumatic stress from the operation. Untill you will find him in bed with another woman dont even open your mouth on the subject

Talk to a trusted authority figure in your church

it could be just a friend

First, double check your sources. Tons of women like to think that their husbands are cheating as part of some made for tv fantasy or whatever. You need verification.

Then, just come out with it. If he cheated on you, then you have to divorce him. You don't have to make it ugly. Just say, "you broke the covenant and so we're through." Now, obviously, you have to forgive him eventually. But remember, forgiving a person doesn't mean staying married to them. You will have to forgive him, that's a commandment. But you can divorce him and forgive him.