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A few minutes ago my husband called me on the phone, he and his sister are on their way here. A few weeks ago I told my husband that I was thinking about having his mom and sister in the delivery room when I have the baby. I told him I wasn't really sure about it though. Anyways, he says his sister asked to be in the delivery room (not sure the idea wasn't suggested by him). Anyways, he calls me on the phone and puts me on speakerphone to ask. When he asked if she could, all I could think about was how pissed i am for him doing that and said nothing. anyways, it pissed him off. i don't really know how to handle the situation now because i feel obligated to let them in the delivery room now. any suggestions?

You aren't obligated to anything. He had no right putting you on the spot. It is your experience and you may not feel comfortable with them looking at your crotch!
When I went into labo, I had a whole crowd with me too. Not that I wanted them there but they were family and I was to preoccupied being scared about my preterm birth to say anything. But it did feel uncomfortable a little. I had my sis, my mom, my mom's friend, and my BFs mom.
If you dont feel comfortable with it, just let them know. If you feel bad about it, just tell them you would like you child born in a peaceful, uncrowded environment...you know make it about the baby, not you...this way you feel less guilty.

Don't feel obligated to let anyone in the room that you dont want in there. When they get there tell her that you havent decided if you want anyone in the room with you yet. Tell her that if you decided you want anyone in there you will let them know. Some people like to have other people in there and some don't. I didn't want anyone in there but my hubby. If I had wanted anyone in there I wouldn't have wanted his mom or sister in there. To me it is privet and no one should expect to be in the room with you or get mad if or when you say no. You should take that time to bond with your baby right after you have it without a bunch of people being there with you.

When you are getting checked into your room they usually ask you who you want in there with you. Quietly tell the nurse that people want to be there, but you would rather not have them in there during the delivery part. They will be happy to kick them out for you! This is a very private matter IMHO, You need to do what is right for you, not your sister in law! Good luck!!

you do what makes you feel comfortable. h is not the one having the baby. you are. so if you sont want them in there you tell him that and he will have to learn to get over it.

It is not a public performance! Just tell them you would feel uncomfortable. They should understand. He can just put up with it!