Hi All I really need a serious advice first time a older guy?-Offistart

he is 45yrs or may be little over is asking me out. I am in my early 30's.He was married for almost 20 yrs. with two kids 10 and 11yrs boys. He is very well established currently he lives in rental but planning to buy his own place have a 3 million shares in a company. his ex wife is CFO of the same company he is well educated and excellent verbally .
Decent physique and charming. My first dinner date with him was disastrous he called me" I am not so savvy鈥?although he said sorry and explained to me that he wanted to say I am not a fast girl like my generation 鈥渆xperts in men鈥檚鈥?Any ways I also did not like some of his PJ jokes like " he's got no short comings..." first time I did not even get it he explained . I did not like that why on first date some one will make sure you know about his pe*** is long enough. Too much for me to handle. I am currently not sexual active and not planning to be until I find the guy I like and plan to be with. I said no to him next day .He sent me text and email how horrible he is feeling for making a savvy comment .
I think I should give him a chance for lunch date and see how it goes鈥?/div>

I have been divorced too with a 6 yr old girl my marriage was only for one and half years.

what do you guys think I should do ?

Moreover no offence to any one can 45 yrs old can perform in the bed ?

how long will be the married life be ( sexual activity) if we get married since he ie 45 yrs old?

Why not? Give him a try with the lunch date. His jokes were inappropriate but only you can be the judge. You would think that an old fart like that would learn by now.

Sexual desire runs into old age. There was a documentary on TV about it. Showing a bunch of old ladies in nursing home who said they wanted sex but had nobody to do it with. The men had their pick as there were fewer men than women. Both men and women reported that they're horny. No problem with 45 yo in good health.

Good luck.

Give him a miss, too much baggage and ego, you will know when it is right, trust your instincts, any guys that talk about how endowed they are, are on ego trips, like you are a fish and dangling bait, insulting, sleaze is written all over this guy.

give him another shot,if it dosnt work next time you will know

well looks like he is also new to this dating game...so,u probably both were nervous...but,keep ur gaurds up...if u dont like smthg then u just dont.give him one more chance and see how things go.what have u got to lose?ure not gonna sleep with him,and u r not gonna marry him...at least not on the second date...but just keep in mind about any skeletons he has in his closet from the past marriage.goodluck

anyone can perform in bed if they are not impotent. I think that a little exercise once in a while might help but no one is setting the bar so high.

i think you should give him a chance. seems like this fella has been out of the game for so long he doesnt recognize that penis length boasts now days were last cool to women probably in the early 70's.

anyways, this douche is someone i dont want to be (except for the money part)

And how about you not having sex with anyone until you find someone. TWenty years from now you wil lbe an old prune and probably will want to get banged. What will you do then? wish you could go back in time? dont mean you have to disrespect yourself but give yourself a break.

Hi All I really need a serious advice first time a older guy?

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