Need serious advice please?

just recently i have been building a relationship with a guy and it seems to have had its ups and downs and i really fell in love with him and he said he did with me as well.
i have been in serious mourning because my father just passed away on thursday.and it has gotten in the way of my relationship with this guy because i just seem to jump to conclusions but today i tried calling him and he told me that he was talking to somebody and that he will get back to me later.i was really hurt by that because i have had a worse day then i did the last couple of days and he just dissed me.it wasnt what he said its the way he said it that hurt me deeply i just cannot seem to make him understand what i am going through.he does something then turns it around on me i just cannot handle the way he is acting with me.he told me he was going to be there for me and instead turned his back on me when i needed him the most and that really hurts.
any advice for me as to what you think i should do

I agree with the above three answers, especially daisy.. But, before you do anything drastic like breaking things off with him, try confronting him and telling him how hurt you are and that you really need his help. If he means what he says and truly does love you, he will help you. I went through the same thing with my girlfriend with my grandfather died a little over a year ago.. Sadly things turned for the worst though and she broke off our 2 year long relationship. I really hope things work out for you =(

It is so hard to lose a parent, I am so sorry. What I think is that your loss is more important than a relationship, hands down. Also, you are more important than that, and focusing on good memories of your father and what he would want for you is very good. If your boyfriend is not secure enough to help you now, then will he be in the future? Be strong, mourn your father, and feel stronger for the relationship that molded your life, with your dad.

Sorry about your father.
Now, if your boyfriend is unable to be there for you, especially at this time, I think you should just write him off.
There are great guys out there, and there is no need for you to latch on to the first guy you have feelings for.
Don't pile up more sorrow onto your life. Take a break and look for the right person.

sorry to tell you, but it sounds like this guy only cares about himself. try to be strong and find that voice inside you that can help you go on. remember that this pain is only temporary and is teaching you an important lesson about how to care for yourself. you will need this skill throughout the rest of your life.

First off, I'm really sorry about your dad.It's never a good thing to lose family. Second, if he's your boyfriend you should be able to talk to him and tell him how you feel. Sometimes guys might need that reassurance when girls need their help. But try to take it easy and clear your mind.

So sorry to hear of your dads passing! If this happened to me I would take it as a lucky escape..... I believe everything happens for a reason!! The lesson here is ...He isn't the right person for you, If he can let you down at a time like this, then he will always let you down...... Someone has said it... you need to work through the loss of your dad, and forget about this one..... There is someone out there who is right for you....you may not think it but its true, these things are sent to show us!! You take care of yourself..... Love Jean

OK, you are grieving the lost of your father, I should say you just have started because it's a long process and can take many years. Your focusing on this boyfriend because it's easier to do this then to feel the lost of your Dad. I think it's plain to see what kind of person this guy is. I could say a lot of very bad words about what this guy is doing to you. You need to take care of yourself. There is nothing worse then begging someone to care that is incapable of doing so. He is a self centered person and you don't need someone like that in your life. I know you need someone to be there for you but this is not him. Stay close to your family because you all need each other right now.