Upcoming Trip With My EX BEST FRIEND. HELP!?!?

At the beginning of the school year my friend invited me and my best friend on a summer trip with her and her family. It seems like from that point my best friend was treating me worse and worse until finally I cracked. I confronted her about how she is choosing friends, ditching me, using me, and overall treating me badly and she was really mean. She even called me an *ss hole. I don't want to continue being friends with her, and I have forgiven her too many times in the past. The trip is coming up soon and I don't think I can handle it. I can barely spend one night away from home and I definitely cannot spend an entire week away from home with someone I dislike this much. My parents say it would be a terrible thing for me to do to the host and her family and I understand. I do not want to be rude to them, so I will still go on the trip. I just know that I will be miserable! I get so home sick that it makes me throw up! I am scared that will happen to me during the trip. HELP!

Don't go...Forget what your parents said. Use the line from the Brady Bunch: "Sorry but something has suddenly come up". Life is too short don't waste time with people who don't respect you and make you feel uncomfortable.

I can understand you with regards to the homesickness, and with all the other unpleasantness it would be too much. Do you have anyone you can take in her place, does it specifically have to be female?, it would be better if you got the people you are visiting views on that point, and explained the situation any way you can. If it is left as it is, there could be dreadful harm done to your acquaintance with the people who have asked you to spend the time with them.

look.. nobody's making you GO on that trip with her.
nobody CAN make you.
just don't agree to go with her. tell her she's had her chance, and you're through with her attitude... what right does she have to do those things to you and then expect you to go on a trip with her?!??!?! honestly.

you really shouldnt be going on the trip..... its going to be bad for all of you guys.... i get really hoome sick too, and i just went on a trip woth my bff that i like nevr get mad at, and i still got secretly home sick!! so i dont hink you'll b able to make it

Just dont talk to her, and if she does somthing bad to you, dont over react, just ingnore it, and get her back with something much worse, payback is hell

I think you should go. This could be a good time to make-up with your friend.

As for the homesickness, maybe you could call home everynight? That what I used to to, and it always made me feel better.

Good luck

DONT GO!!! its ur choice whether or not U go somewhere! u dont have to put up with her s*** any more! thats y u left her isnt it! SO DONT PURPOSELY GO SOMEWHERE U DONT WANNA GO! u no ull be miserable, y r u askin this question? easy squeasy lemon peasy u just tell her ur not going! y go on a vacation with someone ur now avoiding!?!

Go and make the best of it. You cant stay at home for ever. It will be good for the future.

RELAX!!!!! There will be more people then her to talk to on the trip. It will be fun trust me.

just tell them that something came up and don't go obvisuly you'll don't need to be around eachother

just pretend nothing happened between u two and have a wonderful time

just make the best out of it

Really...don't go. Thank the parents for inviting you, but let them know that you and the other girl don't get along, and you would hate to make their vacation awkward. I know exactly how you feel, when I see my back-stabbing ex-best friend, I lose all self control and am completely miserable and not myself. It would be awful to spend and entire week with her.

AND...in my experience, when it comes to girls....two is company and three's a crowd. With three girls, someone always ends up being the odd man out.

Just save yourself some heartache and drama, and give yourself a peaceful week in your hometown - where you can do what you want, go where you want, and hang out with who you want without worrying about running into this girl.

Who knows? You might even find yourself at a party or the pool or something, talking to one of her friends, or a guy she likes, and you'll just outshine her!

Good luck with everything!