Online chatting finally seen each other and....?

The story goes this way. I am already married, have one kid,not working just taking care of our son and he's schooling already.My life focused only to taking care of him.Husband is working abroad.Me and my kid lives separate from parents,in short we already have our own home so I handle our time,we do whatever we want to do.I am a good mother.My pass time is sometimes chatting.Last Feb of this year I meet a guy from chatting.He is like my age and he is working not from his country but in S'pore.Since then i online everynight just for this guy.My husband and I chat but vey rare coz he is more on calls even though he has connected to internet.From day to day chatting I felt like i am starting to liking him.I felt sad if i do not have offline messages received from him.Until such time just last month we went to S'pore for a vacation of 2 months.I and this guy are still chatting.When he came to know that we were already in s'pore he became interested on me.He wants us to meet.

He knws that i am already married and hv a kid.I also became intrsted on him..meet him personally.We alwys set date for meetings but none of them came true bec at frst he wnts to meet me just me.but i cnnt leave the house without my kid as no one wil tke care of him here.Until finally decided he wnts to meet me and my kid.So yestrday without so much planning of this meeting I went out with my kid & meet him.I really felt shy,my son didn't spoke and ate.We meet during lunch time.He was at work just went out for lunch to meet me.After that lunch we went somewher else,hv shopping.I thought after seeing him in person all the feeling i have bfore will go out to nothng but no.I was wrong.It even increases, its like i want to see him again.He told me we'l go again this sat or sun for a movie but told him i am nt sure.Now, aftr seeing him i felt sad like i miss him. I dnt knw wht i feel rght nw.i dnt knw wht to do.When husb.went home frm wrk last nght our kid told it.but told him his my frnd

You should understand that "marriage" need not be perfect, it must always be right.

Regardless of whether your husband may have shortcomings that is the essence of marriage, "FORSAKING ALL OTHERS" because you already made a choice.

Missing him, might be a product of mystery and infatuation with him. But, if you will continue with this folly, how would that affect your kids and your husband? Your reputation as a family woman, and a mother? How will your son, respect you in this regard.

I know dear, you know the answer to your own question. If you go on and chat with him, no matter how innocent you defend it could be, it will always boil down to emotional infidelity to your husband. What sense does it make? Why risk your family, quiet life, to a person whom you don't know if he is really kind or where he comes from?

Wake up before you burn your house and set yourself to your own misery. Don't play with fire, you might get yourself burned and die.,...

May you find happiness in your family.

you're already having an affair and you don't even know it....

You are skating on thin ice!This tip of iceberg!

SUE's right :)

Whoa, so this maybe the recipe for a divorce. Its like playing with fire and you may end up burning yourself alive. I'm not trying to scare you, but if you continue doing this, than the possibility of having this ending is pretty high. And please consider about your child, how your child think of you? What will be the future of your child is you continue doing this? Just ponder about this and get out of it as soon as possible. Its good for you and your child. Just do it.

What you are doing is called having an affair. It is not fair to your husband or your son, or, for that matter, the other man.

You should cut this off. It isn't going to turn out good, no matter how you slice it.

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look lady...what u had for him is just an infatuation i guess, unless u had gone abit 'far' with him......think about ur kids...and how hard ur hubby is trying to make a living for the family....focus more on ur family, bring ur kids out if u feel bored...talk to ur hubby if u have any problem wif him...and i guess u have to STOP that chatting thing....it is really NOT a good idea to start an affair....once again.....pls think abt ur innocent kids.....