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Advice about how to handle my aunt calling my children mistakes??? |
Let me start off by saying she was drunk I think....but I'm not sure. The only way I can tell is by sight. She said my pregnancy was not planned it was a mistake, and so is my other daughter. SHe said my marriage sucks (I made the mistake of coming to her when I was upset). I will never have anything because I have two kids, I'll never finish college (Im 31 I'm going back to school..so I have a job and a good one). And lastly if my husband and i were to break up I'll be on welfare because he's going to quit his job he's had for 13 years and move back to the caribbean...he came here to live when he was9. I started to get mad and told her that when she gets pregnant and becomes a mother (she's 55) come and talk to me. All her ranting sounds like jealousy to me. She's having a go at you out of sheer frustration that you have what she never had. In order to feel better she is attempting to run it down and belittle it and when you dont agree she gets angry with you. If you agreed she could justify her life but you obviously wont because you are happy with it. So it twists to being your fault for her pain. She's bitter and twisted but also a very sad figure. Avoidance is the best policy. Tell her quite clearly that her behaviour has lost her your respect and friend ship and you wont be round anymore. And not to call. Until she can be grown up. Who cares if her not having kids is a soft spot for her?? She was way over the line with that she said to you, so why should you spare her feelings? She didn't get the last word, she just made herself look like even more of a moron while you remained calm and mature. You have the last word because you are being the adult in the situation. Don't respond to her until she apologizes. leave it she is not worth you time and energy it sound to me like you have a good life and a good husband congrats on going back to school and having a good job. Oh and by the way I have 3 kids and didn't plan any of them but would not give them back for the world...and her no kids "soft spot" well then she needs to stay out of your business Children are not mistakes planned or not, they are miracles (surprises by GOD) Drunk or not she was out of line, your marriage is not her business! Be happy, successful, and live your life. Wait for her to apologize and do with it what you will, but remember family is |
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