I still love him and he still loves me but....?

I am so angry right now. I am carrying this guy's child but we are not together. His other baby's momma holds his first born over his head like a puppet with strings. We were dating again but I broke it off yesterday because she was visiting him and he told me not to call. He told me not to call because he did not want her to know that he was seeing me again because she threatens to keep his son from him. Well when we were living together she called and texted him all the time and it didn't bother me because I knew se was carrying his child. He should be treating both of his children equally but this one gets put second and I'm tired of it. Do you think it's wrong for me to not put him on the birth certificate while he is acting like this? I don't want this child growing up around other baby momma drama. I do still love him but I'm not sure if I can handle the drama. I don't need it.

First of all, this guy does not love you. Accept that.

When a man loves a woman, she would be first in his life, especially if she's pregnant with his child.

Secondly, stop fooling yourself that this guy is simply with that other lady because of his other child. He's with the other lady because that is where he wants to be.

Thirdly, there is a way for your child and that other lady's child to even the playing field. It's called child support. Make sure you go and get yours.

Finally, FORGET HIM. You're only being used. Have your child, love him or her, and get on with the business of making a life for you and your child.

Yes, you are wrong for not putting his name on the birth certificate. He is the biological father no matter how he treats you. It's like you are punishing the baby because the father is not acting right. Remember you chose this man and you probably knew about the baby momma dramam before you got with him. This is what you are going to have to deal with when you have a baby with a man that doesn't know how to keep his other woman in her place. Stay strong girl! Let him know you are in charge and is independent with or without him and his drama. Remember you don't need the stress when carrying a baby. You have other things to think about. :)