I am 38wks pregnant and at "outs" with my mother n law?

In Feb she was trying cause problems between my husband and I saying things like..I dont love or appreciate my husband enough. She always make negative comments towards me. My husband had enough and confronted his mom. Since then they haven't talked. My husband said he wasn't going to call her when we have our baby. As much as I dont like her but I feel its only right for him to call her.
But am worried it will open a door for her to come over when she wants.. and it will be awkard between her and I. How should I handle this? Any suggestions are welcomed!

I think that when you have the baby your husband should call her and tell her about the baby. He should also tell her that if she would like to come by for a few minutes to see the baby, visiting hours are such and such.

Then, when you take the baby home, she should be called again and invited for a specific time, like "Sunday at 2:00 for a short visit." After an hour, or as soon as things start getting uncomfortable, you just thank her for coming and tell her that you'll have to ask her to leave so you can rest.

If she comes over without calling first or without having been invited, you answer the door, but you do not let her in -- tell her that she really needs to call before coming to give you the opportunity to tell her whether or not it is a convenient time for you.

If you do this calmly and with kindness, she will have the opportunity to learn that she is not going to be allowed to control you or her son -- and that if she wants to be included, she'll have to behave herself and be respectful of you, her son, and his marriage.

Good luck. And congratulations on the upcoming addition to your family !

i know how you feel. they do so much bad things to hurt you but still you can forgive them. i think its best to not say anything. mother in laws like that well always be like that. and well always cause problems. she is gonna find another something else to say and cause more problem, I've been there. now my husband and i moved away from my mother in law. and its great. no more drama. if you let your mother in law see your child grow up, I'm sure she well tell your child hurtful things like say you told daddy to yell at grandma. just move on and be happy. congrats.. good luck.

hi i think you should talk to your hubby about this if it is worrying you otherwise just let it go because its not going to change i think his mother is angry with you for taking her son away and i dont think that there is anything you can do to change that i would just get on with you life live it the way you want it thats the only way you are going to be happy good luck