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Dinner or not? I'll try to get to the point here, I am 29, engaged, we got invited by text mssg no less to


dinner on Monday by a friend of mine from high school and his wife. I have not spoke to them in a month, and before that phone call, I had not spoken to them in over 8 months. They only called to invite me to a baby shower of another 'old' friend, which I declined to go. Now, I had made countless efforts to remain friends and keep in touch over the years, I am not perfect, but over this last year, year and a half I really tried and it seemed no one cared much. I expalined to both of them on the phone last month that I just felt like the friend ship was gone and of course they felt bad & invited us to dinner the next week, said she'd call. Well she never did and here it is a month later and they are inviting us now? I just feel like they truly don't care about the friendship I guess and have no idea how to handle the dinner invite. Suck it up and go or just say no thanks and not worry about this 'friendship' anymore?

The whole story is too long so I hope I've given enough info, thx!

**Sorry about the way I typed the question, I'm a retard! LOL

Don't take anything for free and don't obligate yourself to reciprocate...a hollow invite isn't really an invite and they may even be relieved when you say it's not a good night to go...holding on to the past does nothing for anyone, go out as a couple and make new friends at a religious function or a community party or something. When you have kids you will make friends with other mothers..

go. why not? a friendship dosnt have to be a serious relationship. if you can still enjoy eachothers company then there isnt any harm in going. if it's too awkward then dont bother keeping up with them after the dinner.

i'd go it's a free dinner if nothing else.
Hopefully you can talk and find out if you really do want to be friends anymore.

I say go for it.
if you feel uncomfortable, leave.


PS: My sister is mentally handicap, she is a "retard" not you. :(

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