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I am really struggling to handle the aggressiveness of an emo. what can i do?


there is a girl in my class at school who i used to be best friends with until she turned emo. she is now fussing over my best friend and rubbing it in my face that they are still friends. she calls me 'big forehead' and it's really stressing me out. she is unkind, selfish and horrible to me. i want to move schools because of her. she picks on me and calls me names and my best friend still really likes her! sometimes I can't get to sleep because it is all I can think about. i don't know what to do. she has loads of friends and they all hate me aswell for some reason. she says that i act like a 3 year old just because I get upset about what she says to me. i can't handle it any more i don't know what to do!! please help me or give me some advice. i will be really grateful. thankyou so much xx

she's probably really angry, because you quit being her friend, but maybe inside, shes probably hurt and confused. she probably thought that you would have accepted her change instead of pushing her away. as for making fun of you, i believe that she probably would have stopped if she didnt have all those people with her, more than likely because of them, she has to live up to this reputation of her being very mean to you.
i suggest that you two talk ALONE, and try to work things out, this doesnt mean you have to be friends, but instead, mutual acquaintes. though, if things still persist, i'd suggest that you get parental or administrive (principal, teacher, guidance counselor, etc) help in this problem.
i hope this helps....if you need anymore advice about this problem, email me at unknownperfectangel@yahoo.com
because i had the same problem as you did.
i hope this helps

She sounds rude and ignorant. Tell her to feck off and crawl back under the stone she came from.

I'm afraid you're going to have to get a bit nasty .... it's the only way to make her back off. What feature does she have that she's self-conscious about? If she has a big nose, for example, refer to it in front of all her friend as her Giant Beak, and make sure you look her squarely in the eye as you do so.

Once she realises that you can give as good as you get, she'll back off and leave you alone. But you must be firm, and direct, and not be afraid to face her down, and say whatever it is you have to say to her face, in front of everyone. If you can do this, you'll regain control.

You were a beaatch to end your friendship with her just because she was emo. Your "ex" friend still is probably getting over the fact that you left her behind becausse of her "change" You need to think of how it felt from her side to lose someone just for what she was, being herself! If you made a durastic change like her and your friends dumped you like that what would you do? You wouldnt want them to think that you were upset about losing them so they'd feel pitty, you know you would want them to think you moved on and sometimes this is hpw they get over things and hard times. So just take time to realize..

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