HELP married for 7 years and have 2 kids?

My husband is very controlling in that he calls the min i leave the house to see who and what i am doing we fight all the time about this i do have a really good friend who is male and he has been in my life for ever and the husband knew of him from the beging but now i cant handle the controll thing any more what do i do i know he loves me and i dont want to hurt him but i cant live this way

I recommend you let your husband know how he is pushing you out of his life - and have a heart-to-heart. If he continues to be clingy, untrusting and lashed out at you - seek assistance (counseling, a third party who knows both of you, etc,) Life is too short to live with a bastard and people who tell you "you must stay together for the kids" do not know that children already know when you and your spouse are no longer in love -- wouldn't it be better to live a life of love and provide a loving environment for your kids? Just somehting to think about.

Ask him how he feels when you leave and about the things that go through his mind when you do. See if he feels insecure and then do all that you can to secure him in your love for him. Try calling him before he calls you, talk for a few minutes and then say okay honey let me get just a bit of time for myself and I will call you shortly. Let him know where you are going and what your intentions are so that he will feel secure.

counselling.
There must be a reason for this behaviour. You need to seek professional help to work this out. Best to try and save your marriage.
Start calling him every minute and ask him what he is up to who he is with, might make him realise what he is doing?

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