Is there other women that go through what I do ?

I truly love my fiance , but since I have moved in with him , his ex wife has been nasty. at first i let things roll cause i love him . but she has went so for as to let me know numerous time I am second in his life . they have a bond I can't break ,which i didn,t know i was trying . she will call and threaten me or be very very rude , and all i want is for him to say enough is enough . but he yells at me and doesn,t say a thing to her ,so i get very defensive and jeoulous. i am tore between leaving because i can,t handle this and staying because i do love him . any thought? thank you heartbroken

One little thing I forgot , they have been divorce for 10 years . He didn;t involve women because of kids =3 they are 20,17,11.

You can't change the ex-wife's behavior because she is clearly jealous, even after ten years, but what bothers me about the situation is that your fiance won't stick up for you. I hate when my husband won't stick up for me. It's one of the worst feelings. I would seriously confront him on that issue. But before you do be prepared to end the relationship...don't just test the waters. Make sure to tell him that you are not asking to have his ex out of his life...they need communication because they are parents together, but he needs to confront his ex about who YOU are in his life, that you are a priority to him and that she MUST stop treating you disrespectfully. That responsibility falls squarly on his shoulders. And if he refuses? I will tell you now that if you end up marrying him you will be unhappy because he will always put his ex before you and you will be forever heartbroken and your confidence will suffer a "second best" mentality. However if he mans up and confronts her, your relationship will instantly be strengthened and you will have more trust in him and he will have more respect for you for not putting up with their bull. Good luck.

I understand that you love your fiance, but like you said enough is enough. You need to let your husband know that your his fiance and your first, and if he plans to have you as his wife he need to get it together. I would also tell him to end his relationship with his ex wife if there's children involved. If they dont have any children together there's no need to still hold on to friendship.

Obviously you are second in his life if he won't come to your defense and instead backs her. I would have to determine if I could face being second to his "EX" and have her constantly harassing me while I have no defense for myself. I mean, you can speak up all you want, but it's just going to be a back and forth fued and the real person who needs to step up and say something isn't. Sit him down, communicate that you need his support and backing and if you can't get that, then you're out of his life.
Good luck.