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Me and my girlfriend have been together about 2 months and we have a good relationship.. however, she seems to ALWAYS go to the club with her friends, once or twice a week, or will say stuff like she fell asleep at 9pm and then call me at 2am and say she fell asleep, even though the club closes at 1:30a.m. It's not that I don't trust her, it's just that I think twice a week is a bit much. I trust her, just don't trust other people. She then says she feels like can't do anything without me getting mad. She's 19 years old. Im 23 and used to club every night but it got old.

A girl that goes to the club, once or twice a week, and sometimes has to say she fell asleep to go and also will stay out until 4 am with friends. She asks me, "so am I supposed to stay home the nights I don't see you?" .. should I pursue this kind of relationship? Or she still into the party scene?

We live 40 mins away from each other

She says, "I would rather be with you before I went to any club!" But when I take her home.. she goes to the club afterwards.

hi,
you have been together for 2 months and you are having problems with not seeing each other?.. its probably not a good thing. also, remember that you are 23, you already passed through that stage of clubbing, she is just starting to experience it, you might want to go with her sometimes and show her that she can have fun with you also, not just her friends. also if you are a person that gets mad easily that is not healthy neither for you ( since it will make you feel bad) nor the relationship, you have been together for 2 months you should be on each other like glue, and love to be together, and you should start spending some time with her and the things she enjoys doing. although i understand that twice a week is a bit too much, but you should try to be together more, and if she is already telling you at 2 months "am i supposed to stay home the nights i dont see you", then i dont believe she wants to get serious. if you two are already arguing, and she rathers go to a club w/o u than w/ u .. then thats not good... i mean you do know what happens in clubs..specially by yourself with friends

so since you said you use to go to the clubs but it got old you know what it is like..you need to let her experiance what you did, dont take her teenage life away from her...

if you dont like it then you need to move on..be with someone more settled down.

I guess you have to trust her. You cannot change her. But ask her to keep some evening for both of you

of couse she's still into the party scene...she is ONLY 19!!! What do you expect!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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