I did this girl; now she won't leave me alone...what to do?

I have a confesion to make here. One of my good friends鈥?wife has been calling me and telling me she wants to talk. Apparently they have marital problems and she鈥檚 lonely, vulnerable, na茂ve and has this appeal to her that鈥檚 childlike. But on the other hand, she鈥檚 so pretty and exotic like some freakin bird from another land. Her eyes and lips are so sensuous that when I鈥檓 around her, I lose it. I have fantasized about doing this girl and now she comes around and I can鈥檛 help myself. So I did her. She didn鈥檛 want to at first- she fought it and said something about a bible being in the car鈥擨 told her to shut it. She seemed bummed and said she鈥檚 never cheated. To be honest, I don鈥檛 think she鈥檚 been with that many guys cuz she was very skittish and worried about God condeming her for cheating but she鈥檚 the one who called鈥︹€tarted it. she was very high on some kind of prescription pills and I figure if I鈥檓 going to risk my friend finding out I鈥檓 talking to his woman, then I鈥檓 going to finally savor this beautiful woman鈥檚 wine. She was great except for one thing; afterward she appeared disoriented and when she went home to face her music, she told me she felt horribly depressed and asked what happened. I was offended, how could she forget? She鈥檚 been texing me all these poems and words and I think she confuses a good lay with love. She resisted me and told me all her issues鈥攕he鈥檚 got mad artistic talents but she鈥檚 so intense how she comes on that I don鈥檛 know how to handle it. I finally told her I鈥檓 sorry but she needs to chill and hope I can take this to my grave. I sure would like to do her again though鈥擨 love my friend but he is mean and inconsiderate of her and I do feel for her but I have my own issues with the person I鈥檓 with. I feel something for this girl but there鈥檚 too much at stake and she鈥檚 much too dramatic for me. She said something about feeling like a used kleenex鈥?and going off on a philosophy rant. I think my friend should take her to therapy cuz from what I hear now she鈥檚 heartbroken at both ends: by him and me but what did she think? That we were going to sit and talk about the universe and all this other stuff she likes to talk about? Men just don鈥檛 think like that. I feel bad鈥擨 didn鈥檛 want to use her or hurt her鈥攕he鈥檚 very cool, something marilyn monroe-ish/ angelina jolie. I鈥檓 not saying crap. I鈥檓 pretending this crap never happened and ignoring her as much as possible. I can鈥檛 even look at her. All I see is pain in her eyes. What the hell? And my friend? He鈥檚 got a black belt, not messing with him, that鈥檚 for sure!

I hope your friend kicks your ***.

that **** better have been tight
otherwise its not worth it

"Run for the hills" :) No seriously you should go far far away from that situation. You should also consider the woman your with, are you just killing time with her. Or are you "mutually" having sex with other people? The relationship your having with her, doesn't sound very serious. Also if you "did her" as you say (the wife, I mean) I'd be wondering if your girlfriend just "does" it with just any old body, too.