A love question to heal the heart?

Well I was with this girl I became close friends with. We were together for 3 months and then she broke it with me and said she still wanted to be close friends with me.We still talk to each other and I still have strong feelings for her (i told her i loved her while we were seeing each other, we also txt back and forth(some flirtatious and sexual stuff). So while I have this going on, I have another girl I use to talk to trying to contact me and I don't answer her calls or txts. She knows i'm single now for the past two months,she says she just wants to be friends with me but she is another girl that is very flirtatious and I'm not over my ex right now. I guess I'm looking for some advice on how to handle this, do I just keep talking to my ex because we do talk about meeting up to hang out, and how do I tell this other girl I'm not into the idea of us talking right now. I don't want to be a jerk but I can't handle more women in my life right now that are going to come onto me.

when i say "more women coming onto me", I mean girl number 2 is aggressive in that way and I stopped talking to her while I was with my girlfriend because she wasn't acting like "just a friend", she was being too flirty.

From what I'm hearing you and your ex are using each other. Your ex is somewhat using you just in case, or while she can't find the right one. Or maybe she feel safe to act that way with you without regarding your feelings. You in the mean while is using her, someone to sort of have to somewhat fill the void. The other she might be just want to see first if she might feel more for you as you know each other longer. Question is, when are you ready to let go. Be friends with them, but being just a friend would be for one another. It is hard to feel the heart broken, but time will heal it - as cliche as it is, it's true. Look for true love. Or maybe, if you hang less with your ex, she might realize her true feelings whether or not she is in to you.
There's nothing wrong with being just friends with more than one woman. If you are just friends with them, then it's like being friends with your male friends.

You first need to explain to girl number two that you feel uncomfortable around her because you feel she is flirty and trying to come onto you and that you are not yet over your ex.
Then you need to talk to your ex. Understand why she broke it off and explain to her that you still have feelings for her, but that you don't want her to feel pressured. If she tells you she truly wants to be close friends and only close friends, then you will have to find a way to accept that, feelings or no.

You need to end things with both of these girls completely.They want it all from you.You will never be able to be just friends with the one because you are still in love with her and as long as you hang around her you will not stop having those feelings.As for the other girl,tell her to move on and find a new friend.You need to find a girl that wants a real relationship with you and not just be friends.