Why are females so selfish and evil?

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How should I handle this without snapping?
I told my ex I can't be friends with her cuz I still want her and I hate her new bf. We were each others first loves and were engaged and I'm having hard time to move on like we never happened like she did. Anyways I made it clear I dont want her in my life by telling her so , not emailing her, not calling, not replying to anything kind of contact she trys, but she keeps on saying she wants to take my pain away so she can have her best friend back. Just thinking about her makes me mad, sad, and I feel so many things at once and her trying to be around makes the anger worse. What is her deal? Would any of you do this? What should I do?

Well that's just sexist.

She wants her cake and eat it too.

You need her out of your life. Block her emails, phone number etc, and get as far away from her as you can.

I went through a similar situation, and what I learned was that I sould have gone for a couple of sessions with a therapist. They will be able to help you reformulate your thoughts and reactions so that you can come to grips much faster, and will not be torturing yourself so much.

Good luck, I know how hard this is.

First off, that's a horrible thing to say about women in general. We're not all like that. I'm certainly not and I would never do that. I'm so sorry she did that to you. You should tell her again and again until she gets the point. The only reason she wants you to be friends again and hang around, is so she won't feel guilty. I know it hurts but you shouldn't let her get to you and move on. She certainly didn't have problem doing it.

We are selfish and evil, it's true. ;) Just explain to her that you still care for her too much to want to be 'just friends.'
Then make it very clear that you don't want to hear from her or see her anymore. It may sound cruel, and be hard on both of you for a while, but in this case it sounds like the best thing.