Handeling a sticky situation?

my boyfriend left me for his ex. im 17 and also pregnate, i haven't told him or my father. the break up was horrible, he broke up w/ me the damn computer, wouldn't answer my calls and avoids me at all cost. he was also my first, i lostmy virginty to him ,,which made the break up all the more harder to handle,and i never found out the real reason we had broke up from him but through his freinds and other stuff i picked up on.
im really scared about this pregnancy , im keeping my baby ,,no matter how hard i may struggle
i just don't know how to tell him, i mean he needs to know but i don't want to be with him if he dosen't really love me, but i really need him to be there for me.,so how sould i tell him? and should i try to fix things with him be4 i tell my father, im sure my father would try and kill if he knew,,actualy my father dosen't know i even had sex at all, he's never been involved in my life and when my father dose find out he'll just blame my mother
so any help or advise?!

i am really sorry that you are in this kind of situation and i feel for you. but hunny, you need to fix things with the guy first. you need to go to his house or to his place of employment and tell him face to face. you are seventeen and i don't believe that you will be able to afford a child so you will need his help and since he helped produce him/her then he needs to step up to the plate. make sure he knows that it cannot be anyone else's. also tell him that you are not making it up just to get him back in your life. he needs to be a man and stand up for what he helped create. it takes two to tango!!! and you need to fix things with him and make him be with you when you tell your father. do not tell your father before you fix things because then he will have a little more respect -at least i think-for the situation when he is there with you by your side. but try your hardest to make him understand.
good luck girly.
i am hoping things work out for you.

yeah try to work somethin out with you ex. if you cant your just gonna have to tell your parents..

im sorry he treating you like this, its not right....

good luck and congrats with the baby.. i wish you well. you can do it dont give up....

You chose to take action in an adult-way (sex) so now you have to act like an adult.

Honestly tell them. Being honest is the