My boyfriend got another girl Pregnant... What do I do?

Im 21 years old. I have been dating the love of my life for two years. This is my second long term relationship. We seperated at the end of February. We still have been keeping in contact and we love eachother very much. We both started seeing other people. We realized that what we had was special and we are now trying to work things out. He is in Alask right now for the Summer. Well two days ago I found out that another girl is 2 months preg with his baby. This is killing me. I called him in Alaska and freaked out. He said he was drunk, it was a one time thing and it never should of happend. He says he loves me and has no feelings what so ever for this girl. I dont know what to do. I love him and so I feel like I should never give up and I should be there for him as much as possible, but I also feel like this might just be to much for me to handle. Having a baby was something that we were supposed to experience for the first time together. I need advice PLEASE!!!

unfortunatly hun you have to decide where your first prioprity lies, if its with having a relationship with him despit this or starting over for yourself. this baby will come along, and will change everything. you will not be his first priority (not if he is a decent father) and their will always be this other woman in his life weather you like it or not. ask yourself if you are ready for this. when he promises to take you out then calls to say the babies mother called and said she and her child need him somewhere else. or when he receives a phone call to tell him he is about to become a dad. will you really be able to go to the hopsital and smile for him the first time he holds his first child but thatit isnt yours?

i dont want to be negative, just realistic. this is what its like being with someone who has a baby with someone else.
im having my first child now with my partner. but its also his first.. and it makes it that bit more special... everything is new.. and its ours.. ONLY ours.

This guy sounds like bad news. I would say peace out to him. I know you love him but the fact is sometimes we gotta leave people because we know that is good for us in the end. If you stay with him and this chick has his baby how akward would that be. You know you'd end up seeing her and that baby and it would be a reminder everytime. I hate to say it but it sounds like a mistake to stay with him. It would be better in the end for you if you let him go.

If I was in your place, I would leave him.

1. He Cheated on you.
2. He got te girl pregnant.
3. The girl is going to be a single mom and that's hard.

But on the other hand, If you love him enough to take him back, consider the girl apart of your family. You will have to take care of the baby like it's your own.



I'm sorry if this wasn't what you wanted to hear.
You'll do the right think.