Exposing a cheater a moral obligation? (P L E A S E R E S P O N D)?

This guy, of whom has a reputation of cheating, has his mind set on trying to coerce my significant other (S.O.) into an inappropriate relationship. Both I and his wife would heavily object because it has taken place before. A very similar situation occurred last summer with him and my S.O. She said she "handled it", but if so why is he still persisting? He should not be emailing. It is very irritating that I am even entertaining this issue again since I was thinking that it was resolved and we are doing much better. The guy is a member of a medieval reenactment hobby group (called SCA) and is wanting to "fight" for her in a tournament. He told her that they "are smart enough to figure out a way to not upset anyone" - which I took to mean "smart enough to lie to our S.O.'s who would not approve". My S.O. doesn't know that I know- it was an email that was deleted (keep friends close - enemies closer!!). What should I do? I am at a loss of patience with the situation.

Um... some guy doesn't coerce your significant other into cheating... she does that very nicely on her own. No one makes another person cheat!

She needs to make it clear she's not interested, and you need to make it clear to him to to stay away from her.... if she's not willing to ask him to leave her alone.. maybe you need to get rid of her.

You may need to get a restraining order against him after you and your s.o. ask him to leave you both alone and he doesn't. Start gathering your evidence... emails, etc.

Good luck!

Tell him that if he comes near her again you will set the dogs on him, he sounds like a complete bstard. Why hasn't your and i won't use SO i hate that term dealt with it. If she likes this bloke then more fool her.

yes. just before his *** is whipped by some one my opion/

I think the bigger question is why is your significant other deleting emails where she is corresponding with a guy who is a known cheater and keeping secrets from you. There is no reason why this situation should even be occurring if she is not interested in him and wants nothing to do with him. So, I would seriously investigate your "S.O."'s feelings and whether you want to remain in a relationship with woman that is not focusing on you as a couple and ending this nonsense. Frankly, nothing can come of it if she is not open to his advances or communication. Remember that.

So, I would tell her that you have had enough of this drama and you are taking a break from this relationship until she can make up her mind and stop communicating with that other guy. If she can't place you first then you have to put yourself first by removing yourself from this romantic triangle.

Blessings,
Zuri
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